How do you deal with jealousy in a romantic partnership

And he tells you that ■■■■? Gtfo quickly

Btw, I’m very visual. But I know some men lose their minds about cool things you do. You should really resume painting…

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I asked him, but yea.

It’s really hard to digest this stuff. I just wanna know how to.

Cos I love him

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:rofl:

She should value her dignity over this.

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Dress up, call a couple of friends and hit the clubs. It’s what people do.

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He’s best friends with his ex and thinks she’s sexy?

No.

Leaving him was the right thing.

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Is it really that bad that he has a little crush on her and that they’re best friend’s

He says he sees her like a friend only.

And that I’m most special to him

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Damn @Zoe wake up! Lmao

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Ugh okay. I mean I honestly don’t think they’re f u c k I n g but the whole situation makes me uncomfortable

I wish he wasn’t such a cute guy I’m attached.

But yea maybe I should continue to leave it

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Go partying. Life is short :crazy_face:

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Oh sorry. I didnt notice until now that he is still friends with an ex girlfriend and thinks she is sexy. That would have been too much for me.

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How long have you known him?

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Since February this year.

But doesn’t everyone have friends they find sexy. Whilst in a partnership. Isn’t that just normal. What difference is it if it’s an ex

Just curious

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I guess if it doesn’t feel right, it doesn’t feel right.

Yes I understand what you mean, I think it is normal to feel physically attracted to other people even when you are in a relationship. I’m a little polyamorous I think I’m not very concerned about sex, but I get jealous when it comes to romantically feelings. And with an ex I would be scared that he would be romantically/emotionally attracted to her again.

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They’re being dramatic he sounds normal. Hold on to him and I’m sorry you are insecure about things but I doubt he cares if he’s sleeping with you he wants to

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Tell your guy to get some more guy friends. That should offset it. Neither me or my wife hangout with opposite sex one on one. If its group setting sure but one on one seems a bit odd lol.
Not everyone may agree with that but thats how we do it. And neither of us are jealous were quite comfortable :blush:

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Oh i didnt read that part lol.

:triangular_flag_on_post::sweat_smile:

I briefly was seeing this one girl and she said she introduces all her bfs to her exes and shes good friends with them all. I said absolutely ■■■■■■■ not :sweat_smile:. So that ended fairly soon after that

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Thanks for all your perspectives I feel like I might be ‘waking up’ lol

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This is all. Just a question of honesty. If he’s honest, there’s nothing wrong. If he’s dishonestly holding or harboring feelings for someone else, then there’s a problem
I’m still voting for him. I think he made you happy and he’s probably a good guy

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