Hmm maybe that's what happened

Unusual Beliefs
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A long time ago my friends started going out and didn’t tell anybody. At least not me. One day they start treating me different than usual and my guy friend starts calling me jealous. No I’m not or ever was.

I didn’t really know him that well but I did pick up that he likes to joke around. Some of these times, I can recall that he was making a joke involving her. Usually it was something like scaring her and I while we walked down the street at night or saying he beats her. (that last one is not an appropriate joke imo) So to these I would usually respond likewise with aggression.

The time at night was instinctive so I was about to hit him but reaalized it was him and revealed my intentions that I would hit him because we were guy friends and he seemed to like those kinds of jokes. To which they stared at me. The time where he said he beats her she was also there, so I said if that were true me and him were going to have problems. So I think they took my aggression as jealousy because they seemed shocked or scared that I would hurt them.

I did not know they were dating at any of these times that happened. As far as I was aware they were just close friends like she and I were.

So here I am, by myself. But oh well, that’s the way the cookie crumbles :cookie: Have a nice day :yum:

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Don’t need em anyway man. Ain’t no true friend going to pull stuff like that

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Well my current thinking is that it was just a misunderstanding. But as far as beating your girlfriend or any other women is not cool with me. He may have been joking but I don’t know him well enough (or even did) to know when he jokes.

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You’re like me - have time on your hands and your mind dredges up all the bad stuff. Nothing good is going to come of people scaring each other. The negative reactions are real because people are capable of extreme harm. Put something gentle on your mind if you can…:slight_smile:

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It’s ok. I’m totally fine :slight_smile: I don’t usually feel okay about this subject but if it was misunderstanding then I’m totally okay with that :blush:

And the extreme harm thing I am not guilt free of so I can’t judge. I threw boulders out my car window into the street with this guy. We were @ssholes.

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I’ve done harm too. The point is not to be paralyzed by it and work your way through the anger and bitterness and make some good times happen even if it’s only a spot of tea and biscuits.:slight_smile:

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I agree. Work through the bad stuff and feel the good stuff

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