Please help, I have been struggling in the family courts and my abusive x has gained residence of my child
He is a sociopath narcissist and is carrying on his abuse Domestic abuse by proxy and because he has manipulated the professionals specially the psychologist that social services ordered. She has put on her report that i suffer from schizotypal traits. She done this because she didn’t reconise the domestic abuse by proxy and therefore come to her conclusions. My x had told her that i am crazy and jealous and bad mother because i smack my child and i had been sexually abused as a child. she also didn’t like it when i told her x is a narcissist which he is, but she said i can’t diagnose as i am not the professional,
she didn’t think he lies or has coached our daughter who was 4 at the time. Daughter had drawn a picture of me smacking and x had written ‘‘telling social mummy smacks me’’ and even drew tears on face. Pretty obvious that she had been coached with this drawing and there was no evidence that i harm my daughter. anyway he has stopped interfered and carry’s on stopping my contact and with the rest of my family,
He has been brainwashing and turning her against us all, social have been totally useless and just say were fighting and shes caught up in the middle and they have it so wrong. I know myself and don’t have any problems i don’t harm my daughter and i also know that he is a sociopath and is getting away with abuse which is harming our daughter, she’s now 8 and he has so much hold on her she wont go against him and he shows his temper when he doesn’t get what he wants yet the social worker who is too frightened to stand up to him doesn’t understand that if she’s frightened of him then how does my daughter feel?
It has been recommended that my daughter sees a therapist and counselling and they sent me to the freedom program so they really don’t make any sense, but what it is that they will remove her from him but not give her back to me because of what the psychologist has said 'all the time i don’t admit where i have gone wrong and daughter feels i’m punitive she should reside with father.
Surely if i can prove his abuse and wrong diagnosed the report will be void. i am looking to get assessment myself through refered by GP Any advise welcome this is a matter of urgency