He left. He’s not getting any of his stuff until he apologizes and sees his fault in thinking all my coworkers at the Abbey Hotel called me Cuckoo. Never. I was one of the best workers there. Says he can’t put up with me anymore. Well, no teeth, thin, needing to file unemployment on my puter, his money will run out. Mine’s gonna run out too. He blames me for all of it. I told him he can come back when he learns how to treat a woman right. He told me, F-uck you. Lovely life.
When people are upset they say things they don’t mean. He’ll be back when he comes to his senses.
Sorry you have to go through this.
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You guys are so much drama!
I’m sorry he left, but its probably for the best right now,
At least until you guys cool off.
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No! No. He can’t think of anything but schizophrenia
he’s got the glasses on that only see one way, and I’m always
the one distorted. Over nothing.
I’m glad you stood up for yourself Daze. Maybe Phil will apologize when he comes back. He ought to anyway.
I want you to get up and stick your head out the window and scream I’m mad as hell and I’m not going to take it anymore. And don’t.
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I said You got that right, you sure got that right.
I do apologize if I came off abrasive, just so tired of it.
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I think he will be back
he already is.
I think we need some serious therapy.
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I encourage you to do that @Daze. It would be very healing. I know it will be harder with him home all the time now. You’ve got to find a way to cope with each other. My hubby is a teacher so he is home in the summer. Most of the time we got along but there are sometimes I wish he would get a life outside the house. 
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Phil gets so scary when he’s right in my face pointing his index finger
into my chest…I don’t know what I’d do if he hit me, well, I might hit him back, but probably not.
I’m bigger than him, I think I’ll just try to sit on him the next time he gets that way. lol.
Just back away from him and tell him not to get in your personal space. He should not be in your face like that. You deserve respect and love.
you’re right. I just said something about my former job
and he said they all thought I was cuckoo. they did not.
I had just told him I’m sick of being seen as the nutso
and nobody close to me can understand what I mean,
like I’m way out in left field. I am not. He’s just so insensitive.
You are not cuckoo. Your illness does not define who you are. It’s part of who you are but it doesn’t rule your very being. No one likes to be called crazy. Insensitivity is difficult to deal with. He needs to be educated. Perhaps attending an informational seminar or group for understanding what schizophrenia would be helpful. Getting him to attend is another matter.
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If he is that bad, why you keep him?
hard question to answer
I guess we need each other
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Yeah your relationship seems unhealthy to me
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