might be time for me to get a new girlfriend i havent had one in like 6 or 7 years and i am 17 but i feel like i have never had one because relationships at younger ages arent the same as when ur a bit older
i was talking to my father and he asked me if i have a girlfriend and i said no than when we were getting food he said the girl at the register was smiling at me and i should have said something. i wish he would have waited until we are out of the restaurant to say that lmao she probably heard him.
i dont know how people who dont go to school get girls i might have to start talking to people when i go to different places
i dont even really talk much when i first meet people and i am weird but maybe i will find a girl who is ok with that. probably not lol i dont know why i made this post i am probably gonna be alone for the rest of my life
When I was a senior in hs I decided to get a bf for the same reason, I’d had boyfriends in middle school but didn’t feel that was a “real” relationship and I wanted to see what a more grown up one would be like. Anyways it was underwhelming and I had a lot of psychological issues at the time that weren’t helpful with it either. So it was mostly a bad experience for me. I haven’t dated anyone in like 4 years now. I think maybe I’d be ready to try again but idk who I would date.
The last time I dated it was way too stressful and the fella was nice and all but I was too sick to have an interest in pursuing it further which wasn’t fair for him.
Being weird is good in my book. And you are only 17 so plenty of time yet. No rush imho.
Funny how that works! I think of all the girls in hs who were interested in me and their subtle signals. One even flat out said why don’t you ask me out? I couldn’t say well uh my river runs uphill especially in that narrow minded town.
idk who i would date either i hope i get lucky and find a girl but ive never actually asked anyone out before i am worried im gonna get rejected badly and it will make me give up.every girl i have dated has actually had one of their friends to ask me,its alot easier to ask a girl out if you already know she likes you
With guys it’s hard because what I noticed in college is guys pretty much just go for whatever girl flirts with them the most (so in other words who they think they have the best chance with) but I was always nervous and not really a flirt so I never ended up getting any guys while my more bold friends did
He’s probably just trying to encourage you. But as someone who’s worked in customer service, being asked out by a customer just because you smiled and were nice is awkward and not appreciated. It puts you in a tough spot of continuing to be nice because you have to, which is often taken as encouragement by whoever’s asking, which can be quite exhausting and annoying.
You guys act like getting a Gf/Bf is like grocery shopping…oh, I’m out of Gf today, think I’ll go pick one up…
hehehe, sorry, I’m just old, don’t be angry.
I only went with the most flirty girl once. And I regretted it. She was being flirty with everyone else too… Since then I aimed for more serious, although good looking, gals, and it was definitely a good decision for the most part.
