Has anyone ever told you

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never heard that before, how did you take it? insulted or thankful?

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I’m glad you like the painting. Thank you, @cbbrown! Your brother’s an a**. Sorry for my use of cuss words to describe your family, but I can’t stand bullies or abusive behavior of any kind. :heart:️

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you are really talented. i wish i could paint or be artistic. i drew the lucky arse hole lotto when it comes to family

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Omg, that’s the first I’ve heard you joke about your family! You’re awesome. :heart:️

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I didn’t take it either way. I pretty much knew that already. He wasn’t telling me anything new.

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my partner and pretty much everyone says I take everything too seriously and I cry over it. especially when it comes to my ■■■■■■■ of father in law. he says things to hurt me all the time and never apologizes

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It sounds like your father in law is a real jerk. I know it’s hard, but try not to let him get to you.

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I have not been told that but before I was MI I had 2 different men (on separate occasions) tell me “You need therapy!” and “You need help!”, respectively. They both said it because I declined sex. It was very volatile, attacking and painful. It is stunning how mean people can be.

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Reply to 47average (I posted too many, so was not able to reply diectly)
Unfortunately some men only want “one thing” and the ones without character try to make a woman feel insecure about her values/decison as a way to pressure her. It is an awful thing to do and any such man is not worth your time. A man that loves you will never pressure sex and will wait until you are ready. If the topic of sex is brought up, I say that I will only have sex upon marriage (even if it is not true, it is a way for me to decipher intentions since they will usually stop calling after I say this).

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Amen to that. Agree 100%