Good to know stuff
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Are you feeling ok ?
I’m fine, why? 15
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This is all so complicated
Why do people have to behave like that
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Im not a huge fan of the word gaslight. I prefer just plain old manipulation. The gaslight word gets thrown around a lot.
This is normally the stuff you’d try to keep off the site. It’s a bit disconcerting to see you actually post it.
I know you’re off meds at the moment, so I’m just worried that you may be getting paranoid or something.
Just concerned, is all.
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Why would I try to keep information on abuses off site? I think you have a strange idea of what we do for support. It’s more than posting what supplement we take or what delusion we are fighting.
I’m pretty insulted you brought up me not being on meds on a post that is clearly meant to help people identify different abuses that they may encounter.
For your infornarion, I’m doing so well my therapist is ready to discharge me to the care of my PCP. But thanks for your concern.
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Sounds exactly like my uncle.
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Reading this made me realise why I distrust guys who shower me with affection for no reason - it reminds me of the lovebombing that happened in the beginning of the abusive relationships I’ve been in.
Thank you.
I need to have a conversation tomorrow with the guy at work who keeps trying to befriend me.
He seems very friendly but also borderline clingy and codependent. People who do these things aren’t always aware of how it affects others.
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This all looks interesting. I got to give it a read when I can focus. Very useful information
As vulnerable people, we need to understand how to identify these things. I hope you are able to figire out things with your new person.
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I think i get what your saying in the sense that reading too much about this stuff could cause paranoia and suspicion. And lots of us already get paranoid to begin with
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Growing up in a religious household i got guilt tripped for sure. I pretty much had a guilt complex
My mom kept lovebombing me then I think she used blackmail on people by threatening them. I know she kept sending threats to my dad and stepmom.
Antagonise: pushing someones buttons/triggers to get a reaction/response. In many cases for attention.
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They are obsessed with power and control or just plain mad. When they lose that control most of them suicide. I am suicidal being exposed to these people.
Thanks for posting these