I think its really boring to post on here, no one is very supportive, and I just spend way too much time filling the void with words that no one cares about. Maybe even moreso toxic than anything is posting thoughts on a public forum where there’s hidden gaslighting and secret watchers on the posts.
Posting less information at a time would probably get you more responses. Your posts are often very long and many sz, or just people in general, do not have the patience and/or concentration to read through super long posts.
I’m not sure what you mean by hidden gaslighting and secret watchers on the posts. I’ve seen no one gaslight here that I know of. This is a public forum though so you never know who is reading your posts, this is true.
Maybe so. But it keeps making me write more. Like I could not just post…MAYBE SO.
Well I don’t want you to feel like you should go, I feel like there’s still good value to be had in just chatting with people who have the same issues. Every now and a gain it helps me get out of a slump.
If you feel like you need to talk with people who have the same issues come back. Breaks are good, if its more long term thats ok too.
Sometimes things don’t work out.
Personally I find you bring value to the forum, but sometimes is hard to get the level of engagement from others you need. Most ‘popular’ posts here follow a handful of scripts, but it doesn’t necessarily make them better posts. I hope you stay.
I had lo laugh with your ‘Alexa play me a song’ post. At least you made someone laugh.
hah thats good I wasnt lying Im kind of nervous to change the station or I’ll lose my music…im about to ask her a question
Pretend people aren’t gaslighting you. I know there is some bullsh!t witchy stuff that goes on. But just assert your objective “no one knows you from Adam” ideal. Guide yourself into that.
I am sorry you don’t feel support here. Honestly I have trouble concentrating well enough to get through your long posts so I probably don’t give you enough support because I don’t know every that’s going on with you. But I do care and hope you don’t leave
I try to support people and offer advice when I can but like many others I skip over very long posts most of the time. I’ve written a few long posts myself but I try to avoid doing that and keep everything as concise as possible. My pet peeve is when people write big long posts without any paragraphs.
Kind of hoping you’ll stick around!
Is there something to be ready about ? And yes, what do you have to ready be for ?
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