Where we both called it a date. And he said he was only not calling the other meetings dates cos he thought I wanted to take it slow. When all along I wanted him to want them to be dates. So yeah … I’m not alone 
it feels weird. I’m 32 and haven’t had a proper relationship so it does feel weird.
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that’s groovy! hope it works out, relationships can change our brain chemistry for the better.
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U will get used to it …ish …now enjoy every moment…
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I couldn’t look at the guy cos kept feeling like my heart was being weird
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Good for you ish! I think a little nervousness is normal.
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Glad to hear ish
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Congrats ish… words are hard to place on blurry lines. It seems you’ve met someone who has respect for that.
Don’t invest yourself too fully. Really getting to know someone takes a couple years. Being in a relationship does accelerate that… but when you find it’s something that’s not good for you… you’re still in a relationship with commitments. It can be sticky… lord knows the better of us would try to respect the commitments for commitments sake.
At the end of the day though. It’s difficult for people to change and even more difficult to change them from the outside.
It’s good to maintain an independent spirit and lack of absolute need when approaching things.
I say all this because I still fail to keep myself from getting excited… each and every time that I can. I think only experience with dating alone can quell all this.
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I wouldn’t want to change him unless there is something about him he wants to change then that’s something I can try to help him with but he is perfect to me as he is… maybe i am not able to think rationally at the moment but there’s some fun to feeling like this… he is absolutely amazing… it is hard for me to express myself and he knows that and he is very understanding…he knows I have issues… he knows my dx and he knows it will be with me my whole life… unfortunately i get attached very quickly…
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