I just came back from a first date! It’s exciting to be dating again! I met him through the internet. We had a really nice evening, with serious and fun chats and just a very relaxed and natural contact. I’m not falling in love yet (I’m also doubting whether the meds allow me to feel butterflies). But it was a good evening and I am happy! :-D. He asked me on a second date and I said yes. I am a little insecure though… he is a handsome man of only 27 years old! Which is very young! I am a 34 year old mum…I feel like a cougar! blush. And he doesn’t even know of the psychotic disorder yet. I feel a little guilty dating with this disorder…I’m not exactly the most uncomplicated date to be with. But anyway…for now I had a good evening with a kind and attractive man who wants to take me on a second date… which is good and feels like a victory! Wanted to share and it’s 2 in the morning here, so I can’t call a friend…
Seems to me that you don’t need help - you are obviously handling it very well.
Everyone hides something when they are out there showing their persona to others. We want to present ourselves the best we can - it is natural and don’t feel guilty about it.
You have enough time for that talk when and if things start to get serious. Until that just enjoy.
Keep us updated
Thanks! It’s true, everyone hides things… if it get’s more serious I can tell him things little by little. I’ll try and just enjoy
Yes! You should plan the second date, something you like, and see his reaction.
I wish you the best on your second date!
Good luck with date number 2! Well done on the first date, nerves are high at times like that. You did well to get through it.
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