For me nothing works at the first attempt,
Who else are in the same boat?
What I have realized is, there is no confidence,
To do a task due to which I fail.
How do you gain confidence ?
3 Likes
Same here. First attempt is always met with frustration and mediocrity, just have to keep trying.
1 Like
Yes @anon54334749 , need to keep trying, but there is fear due to which there is no confidence.
When I worked the colleagues are so fast at work, I was always left behind.
How many attempts do one try to give up ?
I heard somewhere that a real decision is when one knows when to give up.
1 Like
I agree with that as well. Knowing when to give up brings peace
1 Like
IDK, everything I’ve done, I’ve done without any confidence and zero self esteem. it’s a miracle I’ve ever been able to get out of bed for the last 63 years.
2 Likes
Give yourself little challenges you can do instantly, like brushing teeth, or trashbin, or funstuff. That will boost your confidence. Maybe do every day two things you don’t like doing. I mean reasonably rational activities. Read everyday a sentences out of a book you always wanted to read. Moby Dick, Tom Sawyer, or the old man and the sea, or something uplifting like roald Dahl or douglas adams.
1 Like
Move to The Lounge as this thread has nothing to do with Unusual Beliefs.
v.
1 Like
I agree. Nothing ever works first time for me too.
1 Like
This topic was automatically closed 7 days after the last reply. New replies are no longer allowed.