Is it because of lack in confidence or universe works that way for me

Unusual Beliefs
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Nothing ever works the first time for me,
every time I have to go for second attempt.
I think its the natures way of telling me, I am a loser.
Reminding me every time, I am a loser.

Its so hard to get things done in the first time.
I think there is no luck for me at all.

Every where I go the electronic devices also goes cranky,
I can understand people acting up, but not electronic devices too :confounded:
Or
I don’t appreciate the ones that works successful, for the first time :smiling_face_with_tear:

Above which, having unusual beliefs is such a pain.

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No you are not a loser. I respect you. It is normal to have to try things more than once. You’re doing just fine.

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Hey Thanks,
Yesterday I tried to do a simple task at the ATM to help my mom did not work and today I tried to make a payment did not work, but yes there are also some lucky days too, I won a lottery in my native too, not a big amount though 40 converted to 500. Some days I could role a double dice and say the number. The number should be 5. Let me see if I am lucky?

@discobot roll 2d6

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:game_die: 5, 4

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If you want to succeed from the first time (for an exam for example) preparation is key. The better you prepare yourself the more chance you have at succeeding from the first time.

You can do it!

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Oh OK I understand. Try to do the tasks more mindfully and slowly so that then there’s less chance you have to do a second time.

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Thanks @Jonathan2 Yes I should do it, I should not depend on luck,
lol at least one number was 5 as per discobot

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No-one is a loser, whoever said that to you is bad. Keep away from such people, they are not worth it.

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FAIL= First Attempt In Learning.

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Wow thats awesome thanks for pointing that out

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Its hard to not be a loser with sz.

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Its only because of compairing either win or lose like every one, but true, there is no win yet, its just a pursuit after all.

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I feel as a loser sometimes, i can’t even do right what i should know how to do right. I try to keep a mantra, that i will just get better with time.

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i know im not a loser but its hard not to believe

i feel if i had any luck at all its bad luck

and when it rains it pours

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Nothing ever works first time for me either. But I don’t think it’s something to worry about. So long as you get it completed eventually that’s all that matters.

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Loser is a label. You are ill, thats all. Don’t try to compete with other people, just focus on bettering yourself

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