Hi,
Sorry to go again on this but my husband just remortgaged our place with my agreement
He pays bills, some food, contributing pretty well hugely with general everything, plus holidays
The place we live in is more mine than his, though
He intends to pay off a car he has and wants
to buy a classic car he’s obsessed with
I want him to have it, but it doesn’t stop me feeling like he’s cut my hand off.
I mean it’s probably fair, or is it?
Also you can’t take it with you
But my money is only replenishable if family die
If we divorce I believe I’d have half his pension but when he borrows money from the house, (this is not the first time,) it is my dowry.
he is spending my money on cars
I don’t want to divorce ever, but using money from the house makes me feel more powerless
Along with slight bullying he is doing this thing women fear about making me completely dependant and not confident
Maybe this is more about that