Everything happens for a reason

I believe luck is designed as algebraic variables in our interaction. And just like algebra there are definite values in the foiling of such. And there are many ways to foil an algebraic expression.

Story of my life.

Pixel.

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the theory explains that you were meant to do those things because it was all part of the plan that you were meant to get stronger from every stupid decision you made in order to lead a better life in some way and learn from it.

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maybe i’m being overly dramatic, but sometimes I see my sz as a blessing. I had chronic dissociation (not a true medical term, just made up) and had traits of being a narcissist. it confuses me to think back at some of the events that transpired in my late teens and early twenties. I sometimes think of my break from reality as necessary… in some ways it saved my life. Long story short, I have a good job today and live by a code that works for me. I’m a little peculiar and odd, but a long ways away from that person who thought the universe centered around him… did I need sz to see this? maybe, maybe not, but for the sake of synchronicity and volition, I would like to believe that I developed the illness as a means of understanding the war that was being waged in my head and heart.

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I have a hard time seeing the reason for a lot of things. I won’t go into specifics. I suppose that at the end we’ll know.

I don’t like that plan. Being a homeless drunk sucked, and that’s just one of many things I got to ‘learn’ from that I could have done without.

Pixel.

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‘one thing leads onto another’ they say, as much as you hated it, you overcame it and it probably made you a stronger person as a result, and if that hadnt happened do you think things would have been different?

I’m filing it under ‘crap happens’. If this was the result of the plan of any Higher Being, it can go ■■■■ itself. I can tell you as a parent that I manage to provide learning opportunities for my daughter that don’t endanger her life. That would be because I love her. Purposely destroying a life and watching the victim flop around in misery while trying to recover isn’t love, it’s sick. And so is any religion that promotes this as healthy.

Pixel.

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there are also bad influences that come into this as well, idk if it is scripted in, a fallen angel that lures people off of the path and down a slippery slope, idk if this is part of the plan though, i will ask about this tonight.

i know that ever since the garden of eden and the snake that spoke to eve telling her to eat the fruit from the tree of knowledge that thats when evil came into this world, before that it was perfect but after that there was good and bad,

its a very hard thing to explain, i am still trying to work things out myself, why things happen the way that they do, sometimes it is good and sometimes it is tragic, i guess that why we all need to look out for each other, stay strong.

Nothing happens in this world pre-planned ---- In other words there is nothing called as Destiny nor God (maker of Destiny)

Everything happens cause each of us ALLOW it to happen (or give reasons) for it to happen. But someone who knows himself does not give the reasons for anything for it to happen and so NOTHING happens to him.

I repeat: If you’ve ever been homeless during a Canadian winter, have fought off other homeless for the few warm articles of clothing you have, and have eaten out of garbage cans, you know how ■■■■■■■ horrible it all is. To be told this is all part of the grand plan of a higher being just salts the wound. That being can ■■■■ itself. I owe it no fealty.

Pixel.

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Yeah , of course its a defense mechanism that everything happens for a reason , if I was to invest in faith , 'Everything will turn out OK" type attitude if far healthier. A ‘Everything happens for a reason’ philosophy is very close to psychosis IMO , of course, if a person is afflicted with a psychotic disorder , then more so.

That is another Psychosis

No , it isn’t , if you didn’t believe sh1t would work or sort itself out , life would become very difficult…

Psychosis 15151515

I dont think it is psychosis, but more on an optimistic vew of life. Its not like we dont work on it, things dont just happen most of the time.

Do things work out if you are optimistic?.

Yeah, I have to make them work most of the times. But I prefer to be more optimistic and realistic instead of a pessimist.

Psychosis is something else.

Keep trying harder to see if it works. More often than not the harder you try the more likely it fails. Im sure if you think about it you would find instances.

What is Psychosis ?..Fall from reality. Yes not knowing the true nature of Existence would not fall under the category of modern-day benchmark of Psychosis but believe me follow the same way of life and eventually someone could end up with that label/benchmark originally defined.

Whatever oils your gears. I’m an optimist :smile: