I had gratitude today and nobody to give it to. My Alter says he’s not gay. I really wish he’d spoken up sooner. Gay people always think I’m gay though. I don’t want a gay relationship. I stay alone.
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I’ve known several people like me, those who stay celibate, and we’re friends. Funny how I was fated to meet people like me.
Yea I do but I’m often put off by some stupidity coming from both sides.
So now I don’t know.
The idea seems nice but out of reach at least for now
I think about what it would be like in reality and I’m just not interested. I think well what if I met someone and he was kissing on me and massaging me and I was feeling attracted to him and developing feelings for him and he made his move then what? I don’t know if I would stop it or go along with it.
It’s something I’ve been really thinking about because someone from my past has an interest in me and will be coming for a visit in a couple of months and I don’t know if the situation will come up.
Sz questions your beliefs and boundaries but if your confident in your sexuality you need to be cool. It gets kinda offensive to other members who are gay. It’s perfectly natural to them and their needs. Might not be your cup of tea but please respect others. Not all are cut from the same cloth and we are a very accepting community.
Meanwhile. It’s no worries if your cool with yourself and what you need or desire.
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I’m not offensive if you don’t think celibacy is offensive. I like gay people.
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Just saying be mindful of others and reading your first post you seem to be saying it’s something that isn’t good and it is for a lot of people.
I don’t believe in celibacy. Your either interested or your not. If your not then it’s all cool. I’m like that but I’m 50. If your younger it’s tough but go join some groups or something to meet people. Even work if you can. If I was young again I’d use dating apps for sure.
My problem stems from my youth and how I was straight for awhile, there’s a lot of internal conflict because of it.
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I have been through similar things. I’m just saying that it can be upsetting for others. It’s nice these days that we are moving more fluidly into sexuality and acceptance because that is how it really is. I think most people move between things with sexuality in the modern world. Everything is accessible much more than when I was growing up.
Wasn’t saying it to be disrespectful. I was just saying that be mindful of others journey. Labels can be problematic for some.
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I believe in celibacy because I am celibate and have been for years. I also live alone and am perfectly happy.
My libido is dead bro. It ain’t coming back cause I ain’t getting younger. I do want someone I can be intimate with, but making love is secondary to real intimacy
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