there are people in my environment at work trying to run me down emotionally. they harrass and badger me with their anger and even hatred. i need to work only i am afraid that this environment will make me ill.
judy
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Well, congratulations on lasting as long as you have Judy. You’ve been employed for awhile and that’s impressive.
I don’t know what to say about those hateful people. Maybe it would help if you made friends with someone there who is nice. It’s good to have an ally in the workplace. I don’t know what else to say, you can’t change those people but maybe you can fight back and maybe they’ll leave you alone. It might make things worse though. Yeah, I know it sucks to get mistreated by co workers, I run into that problem too. Good luck.
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I got an offer at a software company. I got lot of butterflies in my stomach. I used to feel like the same for not performing upto the level of normies. So feel might get criticised for being slow or unusual. Also, feel like a huge burden to people. I get into a negative feedback loop that runs for eternity. Though i try to fight back. There is something that keeps me away from reality. Changing lifestyle and trying to adapt might help. All the best for your smooth sailing at work.
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Good luck to you all. I hope it works out, everyone working.
Im panicking because i havr a masters I’ll start in september but im hoping it will be okay
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That is hard, but you have to cope with it.I would not fight back, a more friendly aproach might work better.Might be good to tell them you have medical problems, generally speaking, but you never know how they would react. Haters are haters, probably they do not enjoy their work.
Best wishes, I hope your situation will smooth out
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thanks so much for caring davincii.
i will try to be friendly even though i don’t feel at all welcome.
judy
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thanks y’all for your help and replies. hugs, judy
Might be a good ideea to be a step ahead and let them know what you apreciate at the job they are doing. I know is hard to aproach people with a small compliment, but ai would try to see the good everyone does and let them know little by little. I really liked the way you open yourself up, since is an issue a lot of people goes trough.
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sounds like a good idea davincii – thanks for thinking positive for me.
judy
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