I won’t be understanding with you than
You should be grateful your sister is like that!
(But seriously, it ticks me off when people tell me compliments, I don’t know why I should appreciate those things, sometimes I like it, other times I just feel my ego is being brushed and it annoys me)
I’m more of a drill sargent with most people I come into contact with if I sniff out a problem and want to bring it into the light. Sometimes we just need a little nudge that sets us straight. But I might across too domineering, and that isn’t the intention.
It’s mild irritability, I get that too.
Sometimes my mom repeats herself, that ticks me! I just say “You said that already” and she doesn’t remember. I have to remind myself that it’s normal for people her age to start to get forgetable and brush off the irritability.