Does everyone do this?

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I reminisce A LOT.

I can’t help it…
It’s fun to me and kind of saddening at the same time sometimes…

Does everyone do this…?

Or is it just me?

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I reminisce, but not a lot anymore. I used to do it a lot. Nowadays I think more about the future.

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I need to work on that

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I don’t know. Thinking too much about the future will just cause anxiety !

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I used to be hyper focused on the past, on both the good and the bad.

Now I try to focus on today the most, the future a bit, and the past as little as possible

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A bit, but more as a parent who misses having adventures with a small kid.

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nope, the past haunts me.

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Ain’t no time for kissing
Ain’t no time for reminiscing no no no and let me tell you so

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Yeah, some. I think of my high school days which I know were just okay… I just hope that wasn’t my best days of my life

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I think if I reminisced it would cause me to get depressed so I avoid it and try to live in the present.

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Awh, that’s sweet

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Yeah, but for me it is more about anger and resentment of the past, rather than sadness.

In one way I am glad some people I knew are still alive and doing well, but for other people I catch myself strangling the air, thinking of very pleasant thoughts.

When my mind is paralyzed and other people use that as a excuse/chance for: ‘lets see how much poison we can abuse his life with’, I tend to find myself counting the internal circles of hell, wondering where they will fall to, on that list.

Seriously, you do not want to have this disease is a sociopath society with psychopathic behavior in your household.

I have gotten over it with time and experience, but the amount of harm that has been done is beyond the simple imagination of my 16 year old self before schizophrenia.

There are some really dark people out there who live to inflict pain, because it makes them happy, or covers up their own emotional wounds. You literally cannot negotiate with them, or speak out to change things against their own way. Which is why having a healthy mind and the ability to exit such a household, is crucial for survival.

How many of you have been abused to the point that you go bald within a decade of this disease?
Maybe it is not that uncommon.

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