At this point in my relationship,
Honestly, it would depend on the situation.
What do you think?
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I could get past it.
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Deal breaker for me.
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deal breaker…I saw my mom take my dad back at a young age for infidelity…he temporarily left me and my two young siblings and my mom for about a year to be with another woman…she took him back but later divorced, saying “I could forgive him but I couldn’t forget.”
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I wouldn’t be able to handle it. It would be a deal breaker for me. It would hurt me so deeply I wouldn’t know how to recover from it
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If he cheated on me with Jennifer Aniston, I’d get past it. If it was my 80 year old neighbor definitely not. Why? I can’t compete with a famous actress but surely I’m better than an eighty year old woman….
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We have celebrity exceptions in our relationship.
If/when he ever gets the opportunity,
My husband can have sex with Selma Hayek with no reprocussions.
She’s married to a billionaire, so it’s doubtful it’ll happen.
But you never know.
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My ex wife cheated on me during our marriage.
I was so brainwashed by her that I was willing to move on past it but she wanted to end the marriage.
It was a big mess
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Deal breaker.
But… It’s pretty irrelevant in my situation
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Deal breaker. 151515
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I would break up immediately!
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I wouldn’t stay in a relationship where I wasn’t valued.
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Deal breaker.
Been in a relationship where the other cheated.
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Deal breaker 15
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Deal breaker. I was cheated on before in a realtionship that ended very bad. It might even have contributed to my eventual psychosis that happened a few years later.
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The common mistake people make in a relationship is that they forget that they do not in fact own their partner. They are not possessions to be owned. They are free people who decide to try and make a life together.
Jealousy is not love. Ownership and controlling another is not love either. This is what we are taught to think love is, but it is not.
Freedom is love. Respecting each other’s wishes is love.
Some people are ‘built’ psychologically for monogamy, others to play the field. It really depends who you are and the way you were brought up.
I have a facebook friend who has two male lovers and it seems to work for them. They have a child too. Their relationships seems solid enough and filled with love.
Would I even want two lovers myself? Or even, would i want to share a woman with her other lovers? I think deep down i wouldn’t like it at first. I reckon one would get used to it though. It would depend how much I loved her.
I would want at all costs for my loved one to be happy and surely that is all that matters. Is freedom what I want or do I really want complete possession of another?
I think personal growth and security means I shouldn’t need to own another. Perhaps, she will want the same as me.
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You can compete with a famous person but I think you may be saying that about looks, but you can look real good but not be able to live properly or be a trashy person
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Deal breaker. The first person i was in a serious relationship with cheated on me the entire time and i believed his stories, until one day i found out for sure. Ill never forget that pain. Ive only felt that specific pain twice in my life, and one was a flashback dream to that night.
I think I could get past it…… maybe lol
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I think it would be a deal breaker. I don’t think I’d ever get over that.
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