Do you hold grudges ?
Well there was this guy who had the last doughnut on the plate in 1977 …
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No. I don’t see the point.
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Yes. Sometime the grudges turn into fear of repeating whatever action that person took against me. Like when I went to hospital almost two years ago now and one of the nurses taking care of me said she was going to kill me because I was a burden on my family. when she went to make what i considered her move, I fought back and they sedated me put restraints on me. She had three other nurses there with her at the time, so I didn’t tell anyone because it would have been her word against mine, and I had admitted to having Schizoaffective disorder.
My best friend since 3 grade just a short time after that told me she had lost her job because the woman she was caring for died, and said she and her son were going to be evicted if I couldn’t help give her $500…which is like 90% of what I get each month to live off of. Being I trusted her…we called each other sisters…then I find out from her mother that she had stopped showing up to work and the woman was alive. Apparently my friend had gotten addicted to drugs and well I haven’t spoken to her in almost a year now. Probably wont begin to forgive her unless she pays me back.
I still hold grudges against the kids in elementary/middle school that used to tease and verbally bully me every day. They’re partly to blame why I don’t trust anyone and refuse to open up to people I’m around.
I don’t hold a grudge,
But I also don’t just forget about stuff.
If trust is broken, I remember and take it into account.
Grudge is an active hate,
I don’t do that,
Much…
theres one chap that humiliated me years ago, he deserves a KO punch from me
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Let it go, @san_pedro,
Hating him is only hurting you.
Some people in my life that have truly wronged me,
I cut off and don’t even think about.
Its liberating not having to waste time and thought on them.
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When I’m manic/mixed, I can hate the world and hold grudges.
Normally I don’t.
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Not really anymore. It serves no purpose and only really hurts me. If somebody has wronged me in a major way I am leery of getting in that position again, I learn from it. If it’s a minor slight or situation I don’t dwell on it. I usually just address the situation and then let by gones be by gones. I know I’m not perfect and neither is anyone else.
Boy do I! Lol actually no I don’t really anymore. But I still haven’t totally forgiven my parents and the only like totally legitimate grudge I have now is against my abuser.
I think sometimes people say or do bad things to the other soley because of something bothering them…something that has nothing to do with the person. So i think its a good thing when someone is bad to me.
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