do you hold grudges against people it doesn’t solve anything, especially for your mental health
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One positive about myself you just made me realize is that
I keep my side of the street on the clean side
and tidy it wherever I can…
The phrase comes up in AA and I think Taylor Swift has it in one of her hit songs…!
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Yes, I was harassed by my x-gf and her friends. She did other things as well which made me depressed. I wish that she suffers as I have suffered. She was a ■■■■■.
100%
Once there is betrayal, it’s over.
Grudges and hate keep you from being burned again.
Its a protection.
It would be unhealthy if you forgave and forgot and went back for more abuse.
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some people are dangerous OK
but for my mental health I don’t hold grudges for lite bull.sit
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we all fall short in life in some ways is my attitude
time keeps moving
enjoyment is key
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Never 1515151515
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I try not to hold grudges. They seem to hurt me more than the person I’m grudging on.
Not worth it.
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No I forget and cant remember as its always made up !
Every one Is good at heart,
People become bad because of the circumstances and there own experience.
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I try not to. It doesn’t get you anywhere. I’m empathetic (to a fault sometimes) and I have no trouble putting myself in someone else’s shoes. I’ve been hurt because of my nature, but living with hate and grudges is worse for me. I’d rather move on.
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I love many and hate a few
I don’t typically hold grudges but I’ve met some real monsters in my life — people who brought on my schizophrenia
However it leaves me with very little faith in decently of the world
A little respect and kindness goes a VERY long way
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I am guilty of holding grudges.
But since my AP+AD regime is in a good place, I am much less bothered by, much of anything
Very level headed
Probably I lack grudges these days as I have less contact with other people
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I don’t hold grudges, your only hurting yourself. Why use all that energy to be mad when you could turn that energy into something positive for yourself.
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There’s one person I don’t like. I don’t really know what a grudge is. But my attitude towards them is that they mean nothing to me.
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I hold some grudges. And for some people i always will.
And no it doesnt hurt me. It just reminds me not too stoop to their disgusting level again.
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I held grudges against a strict catholic Filipino family that ran the board and care i lived in. They were vile. I found out not long ago those sisters are dead.
My grudge is gone now.
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Thanks a lot! Lol
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yes very much! My foster parents!
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I do admit to the occasional grudge. Nothing worse than someone who drinks out of the milk carton and then puts it back in the fridge, right @Nomad?
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I try not to hold grudges. I try to forgive, but forgiving doesen’t mean you accept what happened, it just means you don’t bother yourself thinking about it anymore. Forgiveness is mostly for yourself.
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