Do you ever feel happy in your life? What is happiness? How do you know when you’re happy? What makes you happy in life? For those who are happy, how do you stay happy despite all the horror buzzing about?
I wish I felt happy more often but lately I just feel flat. It makes me sometimes want to hurt myself but I’ve avoided that for now. I don’t want to go back in the hospital.
Staying happy for me has meant living simply and accepting my life as it is. I do like to trt to make improvements though. Working out helps.
When I was little I lived a very dreamy life that was a mixture of great happiness and great pain. I would develop the most intense crushes on girls. I was obsessed with whoever my crush was. I thought of nothing else. It hurt. But I still loved going on hikes on the weekend and exploring the countryside, like most of the boys my age. There was a lot of happiness in that.
Happiness is wen my thoughts, my actions and my dreams are in harmony.
Because of addiction issues I haven’t really been happy in a long time.
I’ve been content thou!
Addiction stunts growth and development for me.
Happiness to me is when I have energy.
I didnt know you were a recovering addict @Zoe good for you! ![]()
Do you ever feel happy in your life?
Yes
What is happiness?
Like a rice bowl delivered when I am hungry
How do you know when you’re happy?
I smile
What makes you happy in life?
When I don’t worry. When I let go. When I let it be.
For those who are happy, how do you stay happy despite all the horror buzzing about?
Prayer
Wow… That’s so deep and so true for me. I didn’t think of it like that when I wrote this.
Yeap I’m an attempting recovering addict.
And, thankyou. ![]()
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Thank you.
I like to say when the energy level changes, the story changes.
Your perspective is refreshing @mangojuice
Meditation makes me happy sometimes.
Yea meditative activities make me happy too sometimes.
They distract me from my problems and I go into another zone.
Good point…
We take energy for granted until we start to feel lack of it due to ageing or aps etc.
I want to do everything I can to keep energy flowing well because that does greatly improve mood, it is a major factor. ![]()
That’s cool yeah I think that maintaining flow as they call it is really important
I don’t worry about things that I don’t have to. Yes, I check my bank obsessively, but I’m not really stressed over it- it’s just something I have to do. As for things going on around me, I ignore whatever I can get away with ignoring. So I stay positive by staying in my own little world where everything is fine.
When someone asks about happiness. I get reminded of a Japanese song we sang at church
In English translation…
What do u think that happiness is?
So I asked my question to the stars
Most important is for ppl to be friends
Said the star, with one accord.
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Can’t be friends with everyone necessarily but I wish happiness for everyone. Lol. ![]()
As elle woods says, happy ppl just don’t shoot their husbands.
@WhiteRaven I am so sorry you feel so flat. Please do not do anything to hurt yourself. I sometimes feel that way if I get really really worked up but then I realize I will just end up in the hospital again and I definitely don’t want that either.
@FreeLunch I love what you wrote about living simply and acceptance. That makes good sense. And working out does help! I agree! I am going to do so in a little bit here, in fact!