Im not gonna tell you how to live your life but maybe that kind of talk is a bit toxic. I know a lot of people do that with their friends like speak really bluntly but ofcourse it’s a bit distructive I feel.
If you’ve ever seen the 1000 pound sisters tv show they make fun of eachother calling eachother fat etc… I think theyre just kidding and trying to gain thick skin but… Idk sometimes they really hurt eachother and I feel like it holds them back. I think they think it’s “fake” not to talk that way but idk. Maybe it’s just verbal rough play…if it hurts maybe its getting too far