Have you heard of this ?
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No what’s that?
I don’t understand fully but the sexual attraction doesn’t come without the emotional connection.
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That’s when you don’t experience sexual attraction to someone unless you’re deeply connected to them emotionally, right?
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Yes I had heard the term before. These are rare cases. I might be one of them too…
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Yes I think I’ve found me 
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I think I have this too. An emotional attachment has to be there or she is just another face in the crowd regardless of how physically attractive she may be. Does anyone know how many people this affects?
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Is this a bad thing??? I can’t be sexually attracted to someone whom I don’t know and have a connection to…it’s too intense otherwise.
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Is This fraud relates to human beings.??
It means you have zero sexual attraction to someone unless you have emotional intimacy with them. I will not have sex with a random girl anymore unless I have emotional intimacy. Still can be physically attracted to her on first glance. So therefore I’m not demisexual. Don’t think Demi’s can watch porn. Cuz there no intimacy there. Just explaining it a lil more. Now you decide if you really are that. Because demisexual, asexual, all these less sexual orientations are very very rare. We are sexually evolved creatures that’s why we have been reproducing for so long as a species. Just cuz u save urself for one special person doesn’t make you demisexual. It’s a rare thing. Not saying u can’t be it’s just being non promiscuous doesn’t make you a demisexual. Ok I think I got my point across.
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I also identify as demisexual, mostly. But, depending on the day, I have also identified as gay, queer, bi, and asexual. Sexuality is a weird thing, sometimes.
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I think you have non sexual moods, sexual moods, and good morals. I don’t think that makes you those sexualitys you listed. I think at the end of the day (or end of the year) you would consider yourself bisexual based on what you say. Scientists consider sexuality very stable according to wiki https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_fluidity
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I don’t know. That’s why I mostly don’t bother with labeling myself. I say, hearts, not parts.
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I was never demisexual. I probably am now though.
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I’ve always been where I can’t find myself having sexual attraction unless I become close to a person, so it’s rare for me to really feel those feelings to anyone.
I mean, I’d say I’d be okay with any gender besides the point.
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I think I’m demisexual too. I never wanted to have sex with someone I didn’t care about and it’s foreign to me how people can do that. I do watch porn though, but it has to be affectionate porn if that makes sense
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I can’t figure out whether I’m demi or ace.
Like… If I care about someone enough, I can have sex with them, but I haven’t figured out whether it’s something I want or if I do it to please them because I want them to be happy.
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I have had it before as a hookup and it meant and felt nothing.
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I dont think i can be this cuz sz robbed me of my emotions therefore i cannot be emotionally attached.
Maybe this whole demisexual commotion is really mistaken for low sex drive