You ever have a serious relationship man?. Tell us about it
I just haven’t found that level of clairvoyance
I’m lucky but not blessed
Just acting in a way it induces that playful relationship, but beeing yourself aware and doing the effort yourself (at least at first). Feeling free to talk about it, but without forcing it.
Explain. I don’t totally understand what you’re saying
You are as accomplice in a relationship dynamic as the other person.
You could manage to forge what you want with it, probably not with talking but with actions.
I’m just saying that if you accomodate everytime to the other person, you won’t be satisfied.
Maybe @dreamer54 thought you were waiting for the girl to initiate this playful sadism…and simply says you can be the initiator too? Or do I think too simple now?
Its exactly that
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I don’t know how to stop accommodating
I surprise myself when I’m assertive.
It usually happens in serious situations.
She would have to know how to mirror
I guess I will see
You guys have given me a lot to think about
We all are/have been here some way or another. Especially when psychotic.
Embrace the clowness. It doesn’t matter.
It’s just taking responsability about what you want for yourself!
It may sound ego driven, I call it assertive with what you want from life!
No I take your philosophy seriously. I listen to what you have to say
Europa
You would love the vibe/style here. I would suggest you the capitals (Amsterdam/Berlin), but in the Netherlands you cannot go wrong really.
The US has been rough lately man
Yea my last one lasted 10 years … been single for 2. It’s no biggie but I wasn’t the best boyfriend but I’ve changed now. Just need to get my life together to attract a girl
You’re with a woman for 10 years? And you’ve been only single for two? No wonder you’re depressed. Need some time to decompress. Don’t worry, you’re a cool dude. I believe in you man
Thanks bro!! I think your pretty cool to frfr
I loved Berlin!
It has this rough and alternative style. And a ton of history.
I personally like a few of our smaller cities better than Amsterdam.