Damn Facebook. :(

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I know this sounds daft. But i just signed up for a facebook account (to try and be more sociable) - and i added whom i thought was my friends from the local bar i frequent.

And yet NONE of them accepted my freind request. And its made me feel really bloody shitty and lonely. I at least thought one of them would be my “friend” - i now feel like a bloody Pariah - and i know it sounds silly, but it just confirmed by doubts that - actually - nobody gives a toss about me.

And that Hurts. :frowning: I wish i hadnt bothered. Its ruined my whole evening. Im lonely God dammit :frowning:

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Yea mate,

Get off that shiit. It will destroy you.

You much better than Facebook.

Its a fake world of bullshiit.

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@anon39015889

Yes your right - Dunno why i Fcking bothered - its just made me feel like ■■■■. My mates are here on Sz.com . Bstards the lot of them.

I feel stupid for letting it affect me over a stupid website. :frowning:

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Yea when i had facebook, people got to me aswell.

I had that crap for a week when when i was younger.

Never looked back.

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Yeah its a stupid move for me to go on facebook. I will delete it.
Just seeing all those people with their wifes and familys made me bloody sad and jealous. And im just a sad git that drinks to much and sits on computers all day. :(.

Anyway sod them - Im starting my job tommorow! I will make proper mates there instead. Thanks for backing me up @anon39015889 x

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No worries my friend.

I hope your job goes well man, just relax and pretend like uve been there a year already!!

You will ace it mate !!!

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Don’t feel stupid. It’s only normal. Rejection hurts in all forms.

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You mean they haven’t accepted yet or they pushed some “decline” button ? I don’t use facebook :confused:

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@LED
@everhopeful

Declined it i believe. Im 44 for gods sake - i shouldnt be letting a stupid website affect me so much!

Thanks for the support guys xx

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How long did you wait? Sometimes people take a day to log on and see the request.

But I can understand the hurt. It can’t have been a pleasant discovery that the people you thought you were close with didn’t want you as their fb friend.
You must have felt betrayed and lonely.
I’m sorry for that.

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Yeah, social media is a weird beast. Try to not let it get to you.

I find it kinda odd that they call it “social media.” But hardly anyone uses it to be social anymore. It’s become the modern day answering machine.

I’m thinking about deleting my FB also.

Take care. :v:

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I care about you

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@JustTrish

Thank you. :relaxed:

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https://www.facebook.com/help/community/question/?id=900433699996335

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Some people have deleted me in Facebook since they knew about my schizophrenia. I didn’t want to tell them, but I wrote about my mental illness in a Facebook group. I thought It was a private group, but It was public. So all my friends read my comment about my schizophrenia.

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I think they will only friend you if you are friends with their friends

that seems to be how it goes, otherwise, they don’t know you.

Did these guys in the bar know your last name? You should start trying to friend people who know you, I’m sure there’s more than you’re letting on.

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@Daze

No i posted i photo. So they know damn well it was me. It just seems, your only mates with them so long as your spending money with them… and filling the cash register.

Anyways - im gonna do my meds and bugger off to bed - i need to be fresh for the morning.

Speak soon. Rog x

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yeah, good luck on this job! Money is always nice.

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I have 7 friends on facebook 2 i never met and my close friend from childhood we lived in the same apartment complex won’t accept my friend request for months now I don’t believe anyone likes me and I think everyone secretly hates me

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i actually deleted mine today

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