Considering pets

I’m few times told that I don’t like pets.
I had a doberman for 13 years in flat in city, and it was torture for me and my mother.
He had 40 kgs and pulling like he has 100.
My poor mother many times could fall on ice while she walked him, when I couldn’t…
It was my brother’s dog and he never thought that was a burden for us, as he went abroad.

I like animals. Don’t eat them, and if my neighbour is busy, I’m happy to take care for his dog for a few hours.

But I don’t believe in attachment any more.
What I want to say is that I like animals free.

I’m pigeon lover. They are free. You feed them and watch them fly.
I have two collar birds that I feed.
I take care for them, finding different food and don’t expect any gratitude.

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Those birds are clean, and they call when they are hungry.

Not to write longer, I just don’t like bounding and that’s it.

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I can’t have pets I’ve decided. I get too attached to them and when they die it really screws me up. It’s always been that way.

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Get a tortoise, EH. they will surely outlive you :slight_smile:

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Thanks @everhopeful, my dog died in winter, it was hard getting him burried and I was devastated.

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Yeah my father wants us to get a dog
I’m very happy with just having Colette my cat.

Dogs are hard work and a huge responsibility.

I felt guilty for not abiding by his wishes but getting a dog would be the death of me!

Taking care of my cat is pure joy

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Lol. Good point !

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yes, we recently lost a dog. rooroo, she was an elderly dog of fourteen, and diabetic…we miss her every day. something will remind us of something about her and it makes us still sad. we lost our other dog, Phideaux, a black lab, great pyrenees mix. both great dogs…now we still have young dogs, missy and max. they will probably be with us the rest of our years…we don’t want to die and have dogs not being able to be taken care of by us. this will be our last dogs.

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That’s a beautiful bird that you feed.

It’s nice of you to care for creatures and wishing them freedom.

It does make me rethink on pets, who also, are a lot of responsibility.

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I like how you describe your belief on attachment, very moving.

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Thanks @Kxev, hope you are well…

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Rough morning. Exhausted. But got out of bed and having coffee.
Now able to appreciate the day.

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Yes, you have lot on your back.
Hope you and your spouse are ok…

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I love guinea pigs, they can “talk” and have different sounds when they are hungry, happy, angry and they can be very tame.

But i don’t want to have one, ( a 54 year old bachelor with SZ and a guinea pig is the quintessence of a geek, imagine you have a date with a woman and tells her you have SZ and besides that a guinea pig)

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Kindly disagree.

I think you should get all the guinea pigs ever and create a giant obstacle course in your home for them.

But that’s just my suggestion :sweat_smile:.

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@bluebutterfly I have two boar guinea pigs- Blessing Pig and Riddle (The Piggy Who Shall Not Be Named). They are great company. Very sweet. Before I had boys, I had two sows who lived to be 7 years old.

I have experience with a variety of dogs, and I agree that they can be challenging. Puppies are much more difficult than adults. I have a one year old Maremma mix and a 12 week old Saint Bernard. It is so much work. Our Maremma is settling down, housetrained, and generally a good boy except on walks, but our Saint Bernard is all accidents, biting, socializing and training, and destruction. Luckily, she’s low-key, but it is still A LOT! Our Maremma was more difficult than she is in that 1. He bit hard enough to draw blood and continued to do so until recently and 2. He didn’t have a buddy to play with, and combined with no yard, he was one frustrated guy with a bunch of pent-up energy. 3. He is a giant breed and pulls hard enough on the leash that I can’t physically walk him, nor can my daughter.

Before these two, I would get adults. I’d generally get retired show dogs or young adults who were still competing or were good for competition. They generally came to me leash trained, crate trained, socialized, and easy to handle. It was really great. If you want a dog but don’t want a huge hassle, I’d recommend 1. getting an adult that is 4 or older (rescues can tell you all about their personalities!) 2. getting one that’s smaller so you don’t have to worry about pulling. 3. getting one with some training under its belt (again- rescues!). And if going potty outside in a harsh climate or a physical ailment is a problem, a small dog can be potty pad trained. I use puppy pads in my Saint’s pen if I can’t keep an eye on her. She’s over 20 lbs and it doesn’t leak through.

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I don’t like pets.
Yesterday the stray cat we feed
made a vomit in the yard.
What if a cat pet threw up in the house?
I absolutely cannot take care of it

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Think carefully about getting a pet. I have my pug ive had for 5 years (since she was a pup) and it is lovely having her but also ties you down.

Also have a bearded dragon but he isnt hard work.

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Nothing wrong with being a geek. I would suggest at least two GPs as they have found that keeping them individually is very hard on their health.

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I am trying to rehome my German shepherd right now. Got her as emotional support animal but over time I have become less and less able to handle or take care of her- often end up getting scared of her if I am in the wrong headspace or get extremely angry which is not good. She is very attached to me which makes me feel bad, I hope I can find a good home. I have been trying to find someone who wants to take a shepherd for months…

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Thanks for the answers - I promise you @Schztuna @Happy_H @shutterbug I will buy three guinea pigs when I reach 60, and I will name them after you.

I think that in some countries it’s banned only to have one guinea pig, and I will for sure have at least two.

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