I pay the electric, the water and sewer, both auto insurances, the car payment on whitey, the credit card payment that was mainly for him, the internet connection and wifi, and over half the house payment, all of my beer and smokes on Dave’s card, but Phil says he pays everything, he will do a kind gesture, then come back and say, Look at everything I do for you. this completely sucks.
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I think it is better to be kind but firm about sharing of bills. It helps when it’s all written down so it’s unambiguous. Is a really hard subject to broach without causing grief I appreciate but it’s better in the long run
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he calls it my house
and won’t own up to living here.
what?
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Yeah it’s hard daze. Definitely is.
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That sucks. What does he spend his money on then?
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I don’t know, to tell you the truth,
he blows through a lot on the cars,
but he buys things like fast food all the time.
It sounds like he’s gotten used to not paying for things. Are you going to lose your house? I remember you were posting about that.
I certainly hope not, if he has any sense, he’ll keep up the payments.
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I don’t know about the western family life style. But if you are thinking about living together, It is a big question. Money cannot buy everything. If you lose him and its make you in difficult situations.
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you’re right, he says I do nothing, but at least I have some money coming in.
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He’s taking advantage of you. Not nice.
I think he still believes it’s all mine, and shouldn’t have to pay.
Ridiculous, he’s got two cars in my garage, all his fishing gear, a bar,
and anything else he’s collected.
I always think about, at least two minds (person) are necessary to cross the world. It is require to compromise in this. A lot of man’s have housewife not earning at all.
daze sorry to hear all that reminds me of my two x wifes. fifty fifty is had to do. I know. but do it seams unfair too. so what do you do.
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I’ve got a little bit of money, but if he buys me something,
he will come back and say, Look at everything I do for you.
He wants to be the breadwinner, but then blames me.
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You can easily control it. Don’t give any of your money and credit card to him. Impress him for works and earning. If than he doesn’t understand than you will say to him, what you had wrote here.
I’ll try, I’m always looking for work. But I got money coming in, it pays most of it. Nothing goes to me.
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It is necessary for your partner to earn money. I think that he knews, your house is your property and he wants to rufuse to pay the loan debt of it. It is not fair. Treat him well with love in this reference.
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