I have a restraining order (which is all lies and manipulation I’m not dangerous.
I haven’t seen my boy even a picture for over half a year. My in laws won’t even answer my calls. So I asked the cops for a welfare check cause Iv seen fights between my ex and her mother before. Also there is a custody fight with my mother in law. I don’t want my boy in her house. But the cops wouldn’t check on him cause I have no real current evidence of fighting in the household
I haven’t seen a picture or heard him talk for like a year. This restraint order hurts so much. So does living 3000 miles away. But if I lived closer things wouldn’t be good. I’m upset. My in laws and ex have used my illness against me like I’m dangerous. Il prob never see my boy again. Yeah I know…I need a lawyer. But too much money. I’d risk not having money for child support or my business or gas
Wait… They’re not allowing you to have anything to do with your boy, yet they want child support money from you?
Something doesn’t smell right.
Restraining order. Which is garbage. Lies and manipulation by my ex to keep him away from me
Your right. Something doesn’t smell right and that’s because it isn’t right.
I’m 3000 miles away. She doesn’t need a restraint order. She just likes to have power over" sick "people
I know it’s hard if you don’t have the money, but if somehow you can get a decent lawyer and take it to court It might help to get to see your boy if you move closer to him. It just doesn’t seem right what there doing and a lawyer will expose all that to the judge and he will rule in your favor … hopefully
If your his father, you have a right to see your son. All kids need to see their father, even if your ill, you still have a right to see him.
If your in treatment and the pdocs say your not dangerous, your ex and in-laws cannot refuse to allow you to visit your son.
Research on the internet at your local courts website on how to start the paperwok to see your son.
You don’t always need a lawyer, and a lot of the time the courts have free help to file papers, the also will lower the cost to file the papers, usually if your on a limited income.
Use your anger to get some action, but it all starts with you going to the courts.
Don’t let your son grow up not knowing you, or worse, growing up knowing only what your ex and in-laws tell him.
Thats the fate of men…since they dont give birth the woman always gets the child.
Usually, but the fathers have every right to see the child just as much as the mom, if they are passionate enough about it
The damage mom’s can do to their kid by not setting aside their differences with their kids father is permanent.
Kids aren’t stupid, you can’t put down the other parent without basically saying the kid is half of what you hate.
It’s not fair to the kid to put them through this, they never asked to be born.
Some people should not have kids if they can’t put the kid first.
I agree. We shouldn’t have had him because of what she’s put him and I through with the divorce and etc. Clearly everything my ex has done has been without of the thought of our boy. Although she clearly would deny it. It boils my blood. I got more things in the mail too. More drama.
Ok time to chill now. My stress level is spiked. Another subject please! Haha!
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