IDK, if I shall write it here,
but I broken up with my boyfriend (almost two years together) ten days ago.
Feeling miserable.
I was paranoid, anxious around him, and I was a total bi***. I was asking from too much, I was always asking “Do you love me?” And finally I believe he is tired of that.
Actually, I was paranoid because once he said “I can hack your PC with one flash”
aaand after few first days of the relationship he knew all my codes on telephone.
And yup, I always worried if he is not actually spying on me. (with camera or smth, but I believe it could be a simple paranoia). What do you think about this guys? Paranoid or actually I was in some kind of a danger?
He was really cold and distant sometimes, but overall I will miss the good ol’ days.
Not the first time we are breaking up but… I believe the last one.
Problem is, I was stupid and I was believing in a fairytales. Like you know these “he’s the one” or smth
And now, I actually thing there are no such thing as “the only and last love of my life”
Some people are just better for us than the others.That’s all.
Yup, long story short- I learnt that I need to stop believing in fairytales. Otherwise I will be forever naive.
actually I was also paranoid because he was reaaally silent most of the time,
And i could say honestly -
almost two years together, but I don’t know who he truly is. He never was open to me. (maybe few times per few years).
But it could simply mean that he was not open TO ME. That’s all. Okay, I really don’t know am I paranoid or no
I was in a relationship like that too. We communicated very poorly and there were a lot of misunderstanding. We were simply not on the same wavelength. Relationships like that are not meant to last. I felt bad about it in the beginning after we broke up, but with time I accepted it was not meant to be.
I doubt you were in danger, but he had no business knowing your passwords and whatnot.
I stay off my wife’s devices and she stays off mine. If I’m on her computer, it’s because she asked for help with something and I only look at what I need to in order to fix the issue. Computer/phone space is personal space that should be respected.
Agree!
I believe that some people “invade” our privacy because they were burnt in past relationships.
But still, there should be trust between lovers… always.
Its okay! dont be worried, youll fill that time with new hobbies and friends in your life… it wont last forever i know youll overcome it. You have a good head on your shoulders too, i think its healthy that youre not destroying yourself to hold onto this relationship too much. i think that really ruins a lot of peoples lives like they wont let go and they just hold on to a relationship long gone…
Aww thank you for nice words!! I totally agree it’s better to move on… I think people let go of relationships so hard because we create illusions about perfect future… which depends on two people, not one
And we always remember the best times. Well me personally - I feel sad when I remember when we talked about our future, when we laughed etc
Simply sad that it was not meant for us. He is a nice man - even though it ended in not the best way
its sad when two people want to be together but something between them is simply not working…
now also not feeling very well