That’s why I weigh 50lbs less now.
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its best to look as good as possible. nice clothes, a little bling, like a watch or a necklace, nice watch, haircut, clean shave or pro shave, sunglasses, teeth whitening. when they look and smile at you for good appearance then you talk to them.
Money and looking good and going out, I guess. You attract the bad or shallow type, I guess. Different types of scenarios I guess.
I never had any luck with women and it’s beyond me and I have better things to do now.
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Well, with those 3 things you deffinetely will attract.
Not necessarilly the bad or shallow, but everyone. Of course you will attract bad type of people, having or not those qualities… but also quality partners.
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I dated the most in high school and college.
After I was DxD, I’ve met and dated a few women from therapy groups.
Dating sites have never helped.
I’ve also never asked anyone random for a date, I’d like to know them to some extent before engaging in dates.
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Work, bars, and through mutual friends.
That’s how it happened for me.
That was back in the stone age though!
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I’m about ready to throw my laptop in the trash, Ron Swanson-style. Dating sites have been atrocious for me. But that’s okay.
I feel like working or volunteering is the way to go. Meeting a woman in the wild is more feasible and maybe better than meeting online. I haven’t had any luck, regardless of where I’m looking, but I think I’ll find a gal where I least expect it or just letting it happen organically. Idk.
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LOL! That gave me a good chuckle. 
Dating sites have totally become the anuses of the cyber world.
It’s best to try church or volunteer work. And if a mainstream religion isn’t your thing there’s lots of other temples and things like that too.
Just don’t join a magick fraternity. (Unless if you really want to, but I hear they really like to “party” if you know what I mean. 
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I think I’m just on the wrong sites, tbh. I had some success with Bumble. I hear Hinge is good. But yeah, I agree with you. It’s just hard for a suburban hermit, such as myself, to “get out there” and meet women. Online dating sites are so convenient. I’m trying to put myself out there more, though, by working. I’ve been doing pretty okay these days, so I think I’m ready for a gf. We’ll see!
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Fixed it for ya!
Haha!
I’m not naming any names of these organizations.
I’ve already outlived enough curses.
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I never had luck on a dating site. I probably come off creepy or cringey or a joke or crazy person. I don’t care. I never had luck or messaged anyone or got a message back. I have high standards and women have higher standards online. I probably will never be intimate and it doesn’t bother me anymore.
I had more luck in real life and I did go to parties back in the day, and still had no luck. Probably because I was too awkward or lacked social skills and stuff like that.
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I met both my wives not at the same time guys…haha…online.
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I agree with you.
But I do not think society does, everyone wants something for nothing. And unfortunately those people seem to be winning right now. I think in the long run when things change you will be correct to them as well.
I have never been with a woman, but I would say be aggressive and know what you want, don’t pussyfoot around and have some confidence, and maybe something will happen for those of you doing the dating scene:
Jump over, do not go under. Most men are not made for this S#$%. Play the game to your own rules, and find your own results. And if you do catch the right woman, make supporting her important, do not take things for granted.
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lol. A well-groomed handlebar mustache might help
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Ayyyyyyyyyyye.
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I’ve been shaving a lot lately. Hopefully the ladies dig my salt and pepper chest hair.
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Braids, man. Braids.
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LOL
Let’s do this, Viking style!
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On a serious note, schizophrenia sucks man. I had so much luck with girls in such a short time before I got sick at 19. Oh well.
Another thing I noticed is how many girls are in relationships, literally every girl I knew is with someone, even the ones I meet lately are married with kids. It’s kinda strange.
I guess I like being single, I always wanted to be of higher value and not fall into the dating trap. At some point it gets lonely, but I’ve been lonely 10 years now, what’s another 20 or more lol