Best quality in a potential partner?

Emotional intelligence is not the same as IQ

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Just about any woman who won’t throw plates at me.

:relieved: :running_man:

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They have to be a freak in the sheets lol jk

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Lol :joy:

15charcters

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Lol.
That gave me a chuckle.

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a nice smile is important

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Kindness and similar interests.

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As long as a smile is genuine, it always is nice :slight_smile:

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I use to fake a smile, it wasn’t that i didn’t mean it, it was more that my emotions were blunted by my meds but i knew when i should smile, these days i feel the love & joy in my heart which makes a genuine smile,

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Yea I understand. Even fake smiles have their beauty. It is the effort and intent behind it

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the thing with the effective blunt was that it stopped me feeling real emotion, it literally made me a living robot, it was awful so it was the best thing that happened when those feelings returned after a med change.

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Which medicine are you on now?

My husband ticks all the right boxes for me , loyal, kind…hes mellowed with age and is now a silver fox. Im surprised he hadn’t gave up on me ages ago but he’s still here like a comfy pair of slippers
He’s my man

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Respectful to me , loyal , honour, thoughtful,romantic, spiritual connection, treats me beautifully.loves me, prioritises me.

I loved my x and he loved me but didn’t perhaps respect me because he ghosted me so I broke up with him even though I was happy with him and loved him and best sex and time together but I need respect from my man.it’s a must.disrespect not ok.

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Does your new boyfriend have good communication with you? It seems like it. I know you spend a lot of time with you.

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He chats with me daily, is romantic and respectful and treats me beautifully.
We see each other weekends.

He is amazing!:slightly_smiling_face::tada:

Thank you @HollyHobbie

My x ghosted me weekdays and never answer the phone etc such a difference in that weekday we communicate all day.

He sends romantic memes.:slightly_smiling_face::two_hearts:

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My longest relationship was 13 yrs

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Perfect! I’m so glad you broke up with your ex, so you can meet the boyfriend you really wanted. :heart:

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I’m sorry to derail the thread.

It’s hard to pick out one quality. I was looking for several when I found my husband.

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Which quality springs to mind?

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