Emotional intelligence is not the same as IQ
Just about any woman who won’t throw plates at me.
They have to be a freak in the sheets lol jk
Lol
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Lol.
That gave me a chuckle.
a nice smile is important
Kindness and similar interests.
As long as a smile is genuine, it always is nice
I use to fake a smile, it wasn’t that i didn’t mean it, it was more that my emotions were blunted by my meds but i knew when i should smile, these days i feel the love & joy in my heart which makes a genuine smile,
Yea I understand. Even fake smiles have their beauty. It is the effort and intent behind it
the thing with the effective blunt was that it stopped me feeling real emotion, it literally made me a living robot, it was awful so it was the best thing that happened when those feelings returned after a med change.
Which medicine are you on now?
My husband ticks all the right boxes for me , loyal, kind…hes mellowed with age and is now a silver fox. Im surprised he hadn’t gave up on me ages ago but he’s still here like a comfy pair of slippers
He’s my man
Respectful to me , loyal , honour, thoughtful,romantic, spiritual connection, treats me beautifully.loves me, prioritises me.
I loved my x and he loved me but didn’t perhaps respect me because he ghosted me so I broke up with him even though I was happy with him and loved him and best sex and time together but I need respect from my man.it’s a must.disrespect not ok.
Does your new boyfriend have good communication with you? It seems like it. I know you spend a lot of time with you.
He chats with me daily, is romantic and respectful and treats me beautifully.
We see each other weekends.
He is amazing!
Thank you @HollyHobbie
My x ghosted me weekdays and never answer the phone etc such a difference in that weekday we communicate all day.
He sends romantic memes.
My longest relationship was 13 yrs
Perfect! I’m so glad you broke up with your ex, so you can meet the boyfriend you really wanted.
I’m sorry to derail the thread.
It’s hard to pick out one quality. I was looking for several when I found my husband.
Which quality springs to mind?