Normally I like being alone
It’s my birthday this month
and I’m going on 10 years single
It feels weird having everything in life
Except someone to talk to at night
I know alot of people on here
feel the same way
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I’ve been single for six years. I’d love to have someone to talk to late at night. I also have a birthday this month, I’ll be 36 on the 30th.
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I hear you both - I am hopeful and that is good and bad. I think it increases feelings of loneliness in the short term. But at least you aren’t numb it tells you.
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You’re not alone. I’m 11 years single @Rellik. I have no libido due to meds and have no desire to go on dates. My friends are all into online dating & are boy-crazy. They don’t understand that I’m happily single.
The men I can attract are not ok. Sorry to be honest but there it is. The dates I’ve been asked on by interested men have been horrific and disturbing - they make my social skills look positively lovely. The men I’m interested in are out of my league. So I do not want to date, it just disturbs me & damages my self-esteem.
It sounds like you’re not at my point in life & would like to have a partner. Maybe you could get out of your comfort zone & try dating, maybe meet someone compatible who you could talk to at night. How are your symptoms, do you feel up to dating? Happy birthday by the way 
I spent my last birthday trying to do something really special & nice for me. I went on an alpine hike, for a gift I got a terrible injury that saw me cancel 4 weeks of work shifts! I hope your birthday is a more positive time.
im lonely too…haven’t had a friend in 20 yrs
sad to hear, @karl , hope you know how to enjoy your own company.
Technically i’m not lonely, just single for 6-7 years, looking for Mrs Right… or just a superficial steady “romance.”
Emotionally i’m always lonely, but not single. Every person is a mix of other people, thoughts, the phenomenons, history, memory and voices.
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Funny how the world works. I ended up on the phone with this girl for hours last night and didn’t say bye till 4 in the morning. She was in love with my secret.
I would stick around this forum but I can’t believe I got flagged for talking about smoking in a smoking thread and got my post deleted. At the end of the day I live in California I’ll just go to the beach. I’m out
I’m sorry you don’t have someone. I’m sad for you. Have you tried to reach out at all?
It was because of the pot, not the smoking. It’s just forum policy. We don’t allow discussion about drugs except in a recovery-oriented way.
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