Bad reputation in school

I feel I’m starting to get a bad reputation in school because I go to parties and hit on girls (not that I’ve been succesful atm).

I still like a shy girl from school, but I feel like my chances are lower if I build this kind of reputation…

I’m just trying to live my life tbh, but this kind of stuff bothers me.

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The answer is within you

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Imagine qualities you wish to have or a person . It will show you your destiny

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For me it depend on what school and where I was with my illness when I made it through alternative school I was considered student of the year HOWEVER during my time at regular school my issues were so severe paranoia impulses and clearly out of control and when I made it to alternative school I was put on meds and most if not all didn’t think even for a second I had it “as bad as they said it was”

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I did not endear myself to people at school

Had an opportunity to at university but psychosis ruined the chances of that

It was like having a stench around me

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Going to parties and meeting people is a totally normal part.of university life.

However…You seem to be obsessing about this girl you like at school. It doesn’t seem healthy, especially since you do not know if she is even interested in you.

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That’s true. Today I woke up thinking of just keeping my chances open.

Thanks @Moonbeam

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Thinking about it now school was partially hard because of femo (fear of missing out)

If I was in school now a days I wouldn’t care about that haha I’d just do my studies get my degree

Back when I was younger yea I can see spending a lot of time on parties etc

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I too had an angel but when she grew up, my view of how a girl should be! changed.

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dont hit on girls to much. your giving bad intentions to your crush. ask her the important question first. if she rejects then start hitting on other women. but rmember. youve been hitting on many women for awhile.

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