I've been invited to my high school reunion

I don’t think I’m going to go though. I have an old email from a friend who went to the same school, and he told me almost everyone at our school thought I was “psycho.”

What would you do in my case?

:v:.

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Go anyway just to piss them off!!! So what if they think you’re psycho!

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Reunions are overrated.

I went to my ten year and regret it,

Made a complete ass of myself.

If the thought of it makes you uncomfortable,

You’ll probably be even more uncomfortable at the event.

Or maybe it would do you some good to show everyone that you’re not a psycho,

I don’t know.

All I know is reunions kind of suck.

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it’s up to you. I moved on from high school and haven’t found the need to go back to my reunions. they’re all married with kids anyhow.

my mom goes to hers and she has re-established friendships with some of her classmates. in the summers, they go up to a lake house in Michigan for a weekend. it could be a good way to make some friends, people you grew up with who share a little history.

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Well, at least you were invited. I wouldn’t have gone anyways.

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@insidemind I can’t help but feel that I was invited as some sort of inside joke. A classmate who I don’t even remember befriended me on social media. The whole things seems kinda weird to me.

@GoldenRex I agree, I probably would be very uncomfortable at my reunion. I was very much an outcast at my school. Even the so called punk rock people rejected me.

@Loke and @Lifer thank you for your responses. I have some time to think about it. In regards to going to the reunion or not.

As a rule ,high school reunions are good for people who did well during their school years,
socially and otherwise, and bad for people who did poorly.

Overall I would rate my situation during the school years as poor( although my grades were excellent), and so not interested in any reunions,
interested in forgetting the school years and moving on.

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Last time I saw any school people I was deep in the drug culture. I think I probably have a reputation now. So I think I will not bother going to any reunions

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My twentieth reunion was a couple months ago, but I didn’t go. I was a bit of an outcast in high school, so I had no interest in seeing those people again. It’s a big school, too, 300 students in my graduating class, so I figure most of them wouldn’t remember me anyway.

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I wasn’t invited to my 10 year. I wouldn’t to go if i were you because ■■■■ every single damn person from my hs seriously.

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I wasn’t invited to my ten high school ten year reunion either. It’s up to you Montezuma. I probably wouldn’t have gone anyway. In high school I did fit in and had plenty of friends. I figure the years out of high school and getting the schizophrenia labeling is why they did not invite me. Oh well.

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My 30 year reunion is tonight. I am not going. My wife won’t go with me and I don’t want to go by myself. I missed the 10 year and I made the last 30 minutes of the 20 year and went to the after party for a little bit.

If my wife would go I would have gone but I am not much worried about missing it. Not a very social animal anymore but it’s nice seeing old friends. I don’t drink anymore so I am not a partier anymore.

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I haven’t been to any of mine.

I decided that the people from school I want to keep in touch with, I’m already in touch with. And vice versa, the people who want to talk to me probably already do.

I don’t have a need to see the rest.

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Thank you all for your replies.

My reunion isn’t for about another year. But I don’t think I’m going to go to it.

It sounds like a lot of us weren’t really accepted in high school.

:v:.

  • Monte

That’s interesting because some people think sz is caused by social rejection.

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