Back from hospital hadeda

Hey guys just to let you know I’m home from hospital today, feel ok but still fragile. It doesn’t help that I started my period today so I’m feeling a little low and moody still.

I’m not happy with the discharge letter the pdocs gave me. The one who wrote it didn’t even see me once!

And they gave me a bizarre diagnosis - and I quote “state of emotional shock and stress unspecified” (R45.7), and “intentional self harm by unspecified means, home (???), during unspecified activity” (X84.09)

Huh??? R? X??? I thought it was F!

Where’s the plain old schizophrenia unspecified (F20.9) diagnosis of last time.??? WTF???

Hubbys father offered to get us into medical aid insurance so I can go to private pdocs in future and go to private mental hospital instead of being subjected to these inexperienced students!!!

Anyway I still have Schizoaffective Disorder and borderline personality traits and anxiety disorder that is my official DX .

I think the last time the pdoc who wrote the discharge letter was much more competent, she stated my diagnosis better. But this one was a joke.

My 14th hospital stay was a big f@#*ing joke. Last time it was much better. More on my hospital stories later…

Let’s hope if I ever need mental hospital again I can go to private one!

As for issue with hubby my mom thinks it’s best I have serious discussion with hubby about my needs and we’ve set these down so far…

  1. his dad will help us when we call him to come, and if I need a break I can stay with my sister or mom and dad for a few days instead of wasting time at hospital, and his dad can take him out for the day if I need a shorter break.

  2. if his dad not available his sister can help out on weekends

  3. if hubby could survive on his own for a few days he can make his own coffee sometimes

And 4) if I’m returning from hospital (or maybe also my sister or mom and dad - depending on how long I stay), he must get maid to clean house for my return so when I come home I don’t have dishes to do.

And 5) the medical insurance his dad will get us.

I will try again with him for now I guess, because if I leave him where will I go? I’m hoping it will be ok…

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Hopefully you all can talk it out while being kind and considerate. That would help a lot

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I’m glad that you are willing to communicate with your husband about your needs.
Yes have a civil clear conversation with him.

Good luck @Hadeda

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Thank you @LilyoftheValley and @Wave yes I want to consider him too, it wouldn’t be fair on him if I just left without considering his feelings . And it sounds like there will be some help coming to us more in future

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I’m so glad. 1515

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