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Awkward comment,I am thinking of losing my virginity and have sex,I think it’s totally normal to have to think about sex,I want to visit a urology to get prescribed erectile meds because I suffer from erectile after taking antipsychotic and antidepressant,then I would start looking for sex

I want to have a normal girlfriend and only have sex with her but I cannot maintain basic friendship or relationship,so this thinking has come to my mind

I been gaming and watching porn lately and madturbating at least once a day,I still workout and look extremely fit so I thought why waste it on masturbation,go out,get erectile treated and look for a beautiful girl to have sex with

Please comment,i am mostly decided on this issue,never had sex is giving me stress because I am already 24

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Depends if you just want sex or someone who cares about you. Take your time if it’s latter. Helps a great deal more if there is feeling involved and less of a rush to just get it over and done with. With emotions involved less pressure also as you both tend to just giggle at it all which tends to relax all involved. Pretty much the best advice I can give you is relax and tune into her body language and follow her signals. Which is not as hard to do as men are more visual then women. Even less of a chore when emotions are involved. No definitely means NO btw!

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IDK…it might be quite a let down considering how much time and effort you put into preparing for it.
Just wondering, what kind of girl are you going to get sex with if you haven’t had any luck with girls so far?

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I just can’t for the life of me see how any of you three have so much problems with women,Go figure!

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I have a lot to say and think online about schizophrenia,but I don’t have much or is just too nerotic toxic as a person to have friends and have relationship…sorry but I am a pessimist currently,pray to God that I would become happy and positive one day someday

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I don’t even know what to say to comments like this… Ridiculous! comes to mind…

Really? Women are having sex with multiple men constantly I guess to warrant these statistics… When do we fit in cooking, cleaning, laundry, working and raising children? I guess we are awesome multi-taskers.

@Mobc1990 Maybe finding a girlfriend first would be a better approach. If you are able to masturbate than you are capable of intercourse… Let it happen naturally. Looking for a girl just to have sexual relations with is demeaning to yourself and to her.

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i am really afraid that i wont have intercouse even after 40??would i live to regret??

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@Mobc1990

I’ve always said… when I go looking for love/ sex… I find chaos…
When I look for friendship… I find love.

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thank you for input,i am not a very trustable friend,because of my unstable emotion and behavior,i dont want to be like this also…but its me

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How old are you at the moment

Just checked your 24. If you want regular sex you probably would need a girlfriend

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I understand being 24, but you also have to ask yourself if you’re in a condition where you could care for a child, because that probability may outweigh your libido. Good luck bro

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Each woman is different , some good at sex some not so good. Its not all bout sex though

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You are worrying too much. Just relax and let things happen.

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A good woman can change many aspect of a man life. She can give motivation, being with her can be relaxing, fun. And if you have all of this in your life than you can manage your symptoms better.

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i did not have sex untill 21/22 who knows !!..it was over rated.
find a friend, fall in love, and then have sex…then it means something…then it becomes ’ something of beauty '…and is memorable for the right reasons.
take care
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Interesting that it’s difficult to find love/sex. I want a relationship with an English man, but I don’t want to have sex with him, I find the act to be quite gross. That’s difficult to find. Anyways, I think you’re still young and shouldn’t get too worked up about this, as I’m sure you’ll find someone. And most people aren’t asexual as well.