Just wondering . What the hell why not
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I was 15 years old and i lost it in the pool with a girl. I wish i never met the girl and i wish i kept my virginity until i was older and until i met someone special. I know it is weird to hear this from a guy, but i feel totally used by that girl. After losing my virginity, i became too focused on sex, and looked at girls as sexual objects to have sex with, instead of trying to meet someone special to have a relationship with or maybe it was the hormones doing this to me. Anyway, i hate my first sex partner, because i fell in love with her and she just used me for sex.
eazy-j, you should answer that question yourself too, not just ask it.
21 to be honest. Late bloomer. I’m just glad that she didn’t think i was a virgin at the time so i didn’t have to tell her.
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So we have almost the same story… 15 to some guy who I feel in love with and used me for sex till I was 19… After that figured sex made relationships so gave myself freely till 23 than stopped all together , now I’m 27.
Love is a weird enough thing and than sex is thrown in…
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19…
First girlfriend. I was determined to still be a teenager when it happened. Just made it.
She called me out of the blue last year to go for a coffee. I went. 30 years later she was still the same person…competitive for no reason and snarky. Divorced twice. (no wonder)
I’m glad we met again. She reminded me of how lucky I was to have met my wife.
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yeah, similar stories but at least you were in a some sort of a relationship with the person who took your virginity until you were 19. For me, the girl i liked starting having sex with other guys and dumped me after one time that she had sex with me. I’m 29 now, and i haven’t had sex for more than 4 years.
16 yep yep yep.
I want to say 17. Also it can be 18. It is definitely one of these two.
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Ya sex kinda freaks me out know… I’m worried I’ll feel things for that person and I hadn’t held an emotional attachment for someone in a long time… I would just like a relationship without the sex for once and than actually develop with that person for once not just sex…
And sorry bout the one nighter just kissing a Guy and never seeing him again makes me feel like I’ve had a one night stand couldn’t imagine it being the first time…
I save myself for 
The Right One . With American citizenship.
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Was 17 kinda. didn’t really climax so not sure if it counts.
At 25. If I missed that chance, it would’ve been 35.
Sex is a tiny tiny part of my life.
I don’t think I’ll ever have sex again.
I’m 37 now with no sex drive.
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I was 16. 
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Same here. Can’t imagine anyone ever wanting to have sex with me now. Still have a sex drive but happy and content with auto stimulation…
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17… it wasn’t a romantic experience… but I don’t see losing virginity as something special at all. More important who you spend your life with after that.
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let you know when it happens…not really saving for any particular reason just never met someone I wanted to do with it. Plus I don’t have a very high sex drive, I think it has to do with my medications…
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just do it when you meet someone decent and get it over with… nothing special about virginity trust me. It’s kinda funny, this concept.
I’m 19 and a virgin.
I was sick and unmedicated since 14, and dropped out of school at 17 and started taking meds. I’ve had a few girlfriends but things never got that serious.
Like @sleepybug , the question of virginity doesn’t really appeal to me that much.
I had a great childhood before I was sick and am grateful for a lot of things. I managed to play varsity basketball at 17 while I was psychotic: that’s enough accomplishment for me.
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I was 13. It was my 15 year old older cousin that showed me how when I was supposed to be just sharing a bedroom with my cousin. She died a year later in a car wreck and I always used to believe I sent her to hell for us doing that. This is the secret I talk about in my book but I’ve never publicly told anyone. Please don’t mock me or tease me about it. I am bitter about it. I wish I could have held out for an older age to lose my virginity.
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so what?! I’m sure you will meet someone soon and have feelings for… I believe everything happens at the right time for the right reason. I kinda believe in destiny if you ask me because of my experiences. So just get better have fun and enjoy life. being a virgin is not a big deal.