my age is 29. I am unmarried …in my life time I never had a sex…
in a present context its hard to find a person not encountered sex…
some say its(sex) a bliss…
osho also says mediation’s power and pleasure are far stronger then sex…
Buddha also discarded his married for the shake of own happiness…
can u go whole life without sex…???
question is in reference with anhedonia related to sz…
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hope you get married and have sex @far_cry0
you could become a monk or spiritual and choose a different path though, nothing wrong with that.
But spending time with your loved one… touching comes naturally and you experience oxytocin… I wouldn’t trade it for the world!
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never having sex is wrong …i would ask you to even hire someone to get this thing done with.
After that you can choose then to ordain as a Monk :)…
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Yes. Sex is not necessary. We can all live happy lives without it.
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I find that very few things in life are bliss. Relax, it’ll come in time, or it won’t. In either case it won’t define your life and shouldn’t cause you worry.
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Sex is overrated to me…I’ve had it before and would be very curious if I didn’t but I’m on the verge of being asexual frankly cuz I didn’t even enjoy it that much. Maybe I just haven’t met the right girl though
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Sex was good for me tbh…I enjoy M too when I get a chance…but honestly for me the burden of relationship is what keeps me away from sex…if you see the difficulty of handling a relationship…its better to be asexual. More than that…currently on my spiritual level…the intensity of BLISS I get after meditation is profoundly way way way way higher off than I can ever get from an orgasm in sex(And I orgasm only like 4% of the time I had sex)…So the thing in the end is that it is a PAIN
What I AM LOOKING at is to increase my spiritual level to such a thing that I start hating sex
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Id like to go on many dates with many women no sex, just for fun… No relationship
This seems like best case scenario
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I was a Virgin until I got married at 29.
I did a lot of fooling around but drew the line at procreation.
But there were many years with NO one, where you just have to please yourself if you know what I mean.
I’m glad I lived alone and had a fun period after I finally graduated from school by some miracle.
Without the stress of school I got better.
The stress of a husband and eventually baby set me back for a long period.
So you may have to double check how stable you feel before making permanent commitments.
I lost my virginity when I was 14. Got married for the first time when I was 24. Bought my first house the previous year with the same woman. It was a wonderful house. Paid $225K for it. Then my mental health took a crap, I lost the house and my wife (good riddance), and remarried the year after the divorce to my current wife. I don’t know how many girls I’ve been with - 15 or so? Not a lot.
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I would pay some one to have sex with you, at least once. It’s really good for your mental health. Once a year AT LEAST.
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I heard that in Holland disabled people get tokens to use the legal brothels in that country. This is the sort of progressive thinking I think is very healthy.
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Don’t pay anyone to have sex with you. It’s a risky thing. Just be patient. I’m 30 and have not had sex youre not the only one believe me
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agree 100%.
so many times I wanted to but held off due to this reason + my consciousness does not allow this. (i find it pretty pathetically disgusting)
I mean I dont know…Most of the prostitudes are forced into this trade (by coercion/deception/poverty/Threat of mutilation by pimps/Rape by others eventually losing their willpower to resist etc).
I mean the cause of these poor unfortunate women (and men) going into this is so sad and sorryful…I just wish the Men who goto this thing atleast think about this for a freaking 1 sec
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I’m gonna try platonic dating…I put an ad on cl for myself
Is promiscuity really frowned upon in Indian culture? I notice the sex rate among Indians on this board is less than other cultures
Pardon my ignorance
I think legalised and regulised brothels are in fact a very moral business. They say protistution is the oldest profession and if it is run well the working women/men should be healthy and relatively risk free.
I can see people’s points that have consensual sex with someone you are having an emotional relationship with will probably trump paying for sex. But not all people are capable of having relationships for many reasons.
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India is truly the most hypocratic society in the whole freaking world
They are more lustful than freaking anyone
Though they call themselves as the most saintly people of the world
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That’s usually the case. The sexually deprived are the biggest freaks in the sheets…hmmmm I’m generalizing here
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The thing about Indian men is that when they see a Girl or Woman…they turn their heads away instantly…looking at freaking sky or somewhere…and the next moment the girl walks out…They head to the nearest corner to masturbate about the same girl they saw a minute ago
They spend hours (and days) comparing about the different parts of a body…and then they discuss with their friends etc
and then they sometimes hide and sneak and watch women where they could get a chance to see Interior of the clothes etc.
It goes profoundly more disgusting than this…But I choose to keep silent
A SICK SOCIETY.
I warn Western Women to be cautious and safe when they ever plan to visit INDIA