Are you still in touch with your old high school friends?

I’ve finally been able to reach out to an old high school/college friend I haven’t seen or talked to in years.

We exchanged a couple emails to hammer out a time we both could chat for a couple hours,

I’m so excited.

She and I were never part of the same social circles, but always clicked.

I’m a little nervous because we have very different lifestyles,

I guess we always have and that never bothered either of us before.

Are you still in touch with any of your old school friends?

Is it the same?

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funny how these things go, but yes , I see one or two every week end

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I started isolating myself from all my old friends as soon as i got to college, and haven’t spoken to anyone since. All my fault

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I am in contact with a few, but not excellent friend status. I lost alot when I became sick. And alot left me

Funny enough my 2 greatest friends are from primary school.

Anyways I’m sure it will be exciting for u.

I’m sure youl have fun, you have an amazing personality from reading your posts.

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My two best friends are from middle school and high school. One, I fell out of contact with for a couple years, and we reconnected as adults. It was so awesome! There is something nice about having somebody you don’t have to explain your past to.

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Thanks!

I think it will be fun.

Its interesting that your best friends came from primary school,

I don’t even remember anyone from then.

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I called a gal I met in Grade 7, always got along with her, she’s married and happy so I can’t be calling her all the time. She is the same, a little tougher, but same sweet soul

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2 of them ive stayed intouch with… pretty sparatically though…

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I didn’t have friends in high school.

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I do still stay in touch with a few friends from high school. We are still pretty close. I guess I’m pretty lucky they stuck around considering the sza. I have freaked them out but they are able to get passed it and I try not to freak them out because of my illness but every once in a while I say something weird.

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I was waiting for someone to say that!

Friends are overrated,

Especially high school ones.

“High school friends” That’s an oxymoron, isn’t it ? I had no friends at the British equivalent of high school.

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yes I’m in touch with my 5 best friends from high school. We’ve been friends for over 35 years, they are all great people still. I do keep it casual though in light of my illness, I haven’t discussed it with them, and they haven’t asked yet even though at least one of them I think suspects something is wrong but she is being respectful of my privacy.

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Nah. I have real friends now. Although one of my best current friends went to another high school close to the one I went to.

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Very cool!

I’m pretty sure anyone that knows me from high school wouldn’t be surprised to find out I have mental illness,

Sounds mean, but its true.

This girl I also was in college with, so she MOS DEF knows. I had a severe drug problem and suffered a total breakdown. No way she missed all of that madness.

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Yea! I have two girlfriends in my home city that I’m still in contact with from high school. One I fell out of contact with for a long time but reconnected this year and it was like we hadn’t missed a day.

I’m glad I have them. They accept me no matter what. They’re probs the only two people (apart from my husband) who think I’m cool!

Good luck with the meet up!

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Nope, I have withdrawn from everyone and initially one of the main reasons that led me to never leave my home was that I was terrified of meeting someone from my high school…

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Most of my real-life friends are from my highschool or middleschool days.
I don’t talk to a far majority of the people I went to school with, and I don’t attend reunions, but the few people that I’m still friends with and not just on fb, but in real life, they’re some of my best friends.

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Yup. It was hard on me though. I felt like there was something wrong with me. Maybe it was a sign to come? I did have college friends though.

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I was friends with a girl for 13 years. Since kindy…
Til I told her I’m SZ… never heard from her again. :frowning:

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