Yeah one of my really good friends here has schizoaffective too. We had a massive episode together back in high school, my first major one actually. It was bad we were like oil and fire with each other’s delusions. However now that I’m stable it’s not really an issue. She’s not but has been firm in that she doesnt want to reach out to me when she’s psychotic because she knows I have those issues. Makes me feel a bit bad that she feels I can’t be bothered with supporting her but its probably for the best.
It’s nice having her as a friend though, we really understand each others struggles and can talk about it with each other like we can’t talk to others about it.
