Hey guys I have a baby and I have a girl that’s beautiful and loves me some how haha but anyways are any of y’all married ? And if you are how do you make it work in general , is it hard? And how do you manage it ? And finances wise , who works and living situations ?
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Married since 2000, have an adult daughter who is 22 now. It’s mostly going well, but some stress from my in-laws, her parents. We just go one day at a time. We’re both working professionals and we’re doing okay. We own two rental homes, but are currently renting a house in the town we moved to three years back. We’re trying to decide if we’re buying a home in town or in the neighbouring city.
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You’re buying a home on the border of Iowa and Illinois, so we can scooter race on the weekends next spring.
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Yeah i’m married…
To my right hand.
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I am not married btw.
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I’m married. I try not to talk about my paranoia or fears to friends and family unless it’s completely necessary so I don’t stress them out. I pitch in at home, but I don’t work. I have 1 biological daughter and 2 stepdaughters. They’re all adults now.
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been married twice…working on my second marriage…happy so far.
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I was with someone 22 years. Married to her nearly 19 years. She had vascular dementia and increasing physical health problems the last few years of her life. It’s 18 years since she died. I still miss here.
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I’m sorry for your loss.
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I love that
No sorry
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I have been divorced for 10 years almost
I kind of regret that
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Divorced. Wont Marry Again. But as most of you know - im seeing the ex-wife again on good terms with the Daughter after 20 years.
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I’m married.
Married almost 14 years, been together for 16.
Jesus.
I didn’t realize that until just now,
I’m so old.
Anyway,
Sometimes it’s super easy,
Sometimes is super difficult.
Love matters a lot less than you think.
You have to be a good team and get along.
Somehow people forget that in relationships and just “go with their heart”.
That only goes so far.
My husband has a pretty great career going.
I’m not employed and haven’t been able to hold down a job for around 9-10 years.
I was my mother in laws caretaker when she lived with us for a couple years.
We live in a decent house and fortunately able to keep our heads above water.
We have a kid together,
But before we had even started dating,
It was decided if we continued the relationship, we would not have children.
I got surprise pregnant after we’d been married a few years.
Our baby was adopted by friends.
They’re a great family and we get to see and talk to the kid often.
He knows we’re his biological parents.
I’ve probably gotten too into my life and more than you asked.
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I’m married, and will never do it again. Translate that as you will… 
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Not married but have been with my partner for over 5 years. I suspect we’ll be together til one of us dies but we may or may not ever get married.
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I’m divorced
We were both very unstable during our marriage
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Single and ready to jingle.
I’d say mingle, but with Christmas approaching, well…
Almost proposed to a girl once, but didn’t go through with it and maybe it was for the better, who knows…
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I don’t fit into a relationship so I was never married and never had kids.
I prefere going solo so the only person that I meet regularly with is my mom because I support her the best I can.
So I live like a ghost without connection to anyone.
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I’ve been married for 20 years and together with my husband almost 22. We have two 16 year-olds (twins - a boy and a girl). 
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Married for 9 years! Very happy. Still love him so much! He’s amazing.
We were both pretty active and healthy when we were first together, for the first several years. But we’ve both become disabled in the last few years. Different disabilities, but we do have a lot in common. I can’t work anymore but he is still able to work. It sucks that we are unwell, but at least we understand each other when we’re struggling. Like today. I’m in so much pain today and very fatigued.
We love to spend time together. He’s my best friend.
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