I’m so angry at the people who bullied me. I know that one of them lives in Korea. She basically ruined my life. I was so angry because she basically ruined my life and never apologized. I thought about looking up her address and going after her because I want to hear an apology, or I want revenge. There is no way I can act on this because I don’t know her Korean name though.
People have abused or bullied me for so long but they got away with it. And I’M THE ONE suffering, not them. So why do I have to sit here and control my anger? I hate them so much. I hope karma gets them.
As a lonely and I guess weird child I was a natural target for would be bullies. I say would be because for some reason I was fearless at that age and would make a point of exacting revenge. After a while I was left alone. I understand your desire to get even, to confront those bullies that made you feel so miserable. The good news is that you’re not powerless, you can find these people and give them a piece of your mind. But you need to strategise carefully, set yourself realistic goals and establish some clarity about the outcomes you seek. The best of luck.
Revenge is bitter sweet, and more bitter than sweet. Don’t go after them. It’s better to write a letter that you never send. Or talking to a therapist as if the therapist is the enemy and get all your frustration and pain out that way. If you write a letter, you can burn it and let go of the hatred as the letter burns away.
The issue here is that hatred is like poison to you. It’s exhausting and makes you very negative which clouds your thoughts on anything that could be positive.
They are not suffering. You are. They won’t suffer if you go after them because they just don’t care. But you will suffer if you’re angry all the time. Being angry means you miss out on the good things in life. Don’t do that to yourself. Find a way to release the anger and hatred, and let it go
Instead of hating them, you should redirect that negative energy to finding a way that you can ■■■■ up their lives without breaking the law, that way they cant get you for it. Could be hard but the payoff will be worth it.