An old question I've always had

What is the deal with self esteem being so necessary and pride putting me at odds with my fellow human? What is the difference? I guess it all depends on your belief in intrinsic value. What is your take on this conundrum?

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I think both pride and self esteem are good. Pride makes u proud of urself and this increases ur self esteem they are interconnected directly.

Need to learn to see where I went lopsided n wat I’m doing about it to feel pride for my effort for the cards I’ve been dealt

I like humility. Because without ego, you don’t need to be courageous. If that makes sense.

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I like humility too. Because when I try to see everyone as an equal, it is challenging, but when I view people as either greater or lesser than me, I am able to do it.

And when I view people as greater than me, I feel better as opposed to viewing people as lesser than me, it is really strange

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It’s ok to be proud, just not to the point it becomes arrogance and thinking you’re better than everyone else

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Low self esteem means at the least you always lose or get treated badly. At the worst you get taken advantage of or ignored.

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For me self-esteem is something intrinsic and precious, and fragile. I’m getting better at building such a thing.

Pride and honor and things like that are not for me, i regard it as a bit superficial.

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