What the hell is humility lol

What is humility in your own words and what is an example /s?

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Knowing that you don’t know everything and be willing to admit being wrong in any matter.

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Its when you inhale it from a balloon and talk in a high pitch chipmunk voice :grin:

Edit. Nvm thats helium :tired_face: :partying_face::partying_face::balloon:

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When I look in the dictionary it says stuff about seeing others as greater than oneself… What does this mean

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Example: Its when there is a conversation and 3 people involved, and there is no value to your opinion, and I am looked down upon. Due to some reason where the other two firmly believe , I have no experience or considering as an outcast.

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I have no idea as im the most proud person i know but. If i had to answer id probably say its making yourself small. Its humility, which comes from humiliation, or that feeling of humbleness.

Its to see yourself as one of the bunch rather than as the best. Its saying i am the least, but not in a self harming way. Its asking who am i?

It might sound like something that someone might not want to do but the results of employing this attitude are very rewarding

When you humble yourself you are in return exalted, and when you exalt yourself or become pride you are humbled.

So by saying, for example, somone says you did a great drawing. The humble thing to do i think would be to say, "thank you! Youre very kind :slight_smile: im not the greatest artist in the world but i love to draw and i tried. Thabk you again :slight_smile:

Or you could be proud and say “yea i know im the best”.

One makes other people and the world love you and want to raise you up, pride makes peopel dispise you and you only end up looking like a fool.

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But if you consider yourself less n have low self esteem?

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I think its basically being modest about your self estimation in relation to the outer world and inward world. Could be with regards to percieved achievements, or acquisitions of ‘successes’ or things. The percieved odds of you acquring some quality and your regard for it. Are you overblown with arrogance say or humility?

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12457 typo mistake

I don’t know what I believe

Sorry let me rephrase that. Its not denegrating your self worth… or your intrinsic value as a human being… only in sort of outward matters.

Saying “im a worthless piece of garbage”
Is way too far lowering the self in ways it should not be lowered, and is self harm

Saying "im unique and special as a person (keeping intact your dignity) but you know i could be a more loving person i think i really need to work on that. Is humility

And saying “yea im the best better than everyone” is pride

Aristotle calls it hitting the mean or the in between. Too much force and you shoot the bow too far, to little force and you shoot the arrow nkt far enough. With just the right aim though you hit the target and it is an accomplishment

Its one of the most difficult things to do. Thats why virtuous people are praised so much in society etc because its not easy being virtuous. It takes time and effort to understand how much is too much and when its not enough. This balance goes with all the virtues. Too much food and its unhealthy, too little and its unhealthy etc. Balance in everything

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Its not always “more is better” its like painting a picture. Its a delicate and challenging task that requires balance, thought, flexibility, skill etc. Its a dance or like walking a tightrope…we have to walk and balance in the middle.

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Why are you thinking you don’t understand? It’s quite okay to not understand something too mind. Just because humility exists supposing it does beyond the word, or appearance of certain behaviours, doesn’t mean you have to obtain this or be humble. Just political correctness or community likes people to ingratiate others by appearing humble maybe. I like this analogy of a bucket full of crabs. As soon as one crab :crab: tries to escape. All the others crabs :crab: pulls the escaping crab :crab: back into the bucket. Be yourself. Just might hurt in the process of finding who you are.

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Lol I was more talking on humiliation.

While these two words are derived from the same root, they are on opposite ends of the spectrum in regards to meaning.

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Humility is when the air contains lots of water, like in the tropics.

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Knowing that you might not have been dealt the right cards but you continue to try to get through life the best you can and remaining humble about it. Sounds really hard, right. I still have hope for myself and others.

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I googled it, i think in democracy humility is important. Your vote for example is one of many votes and the acceptance of the outcome can be humiliating, when your vote is not in your favour.

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I am the most humble man in the world! Bask in my radiant visage! I win! I’m awesome! Fight me!

:neutral_face::expressionless::neutral_face:

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You seem so sweet

Thanks for the response

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its a way of relating to others that doesn’t put you over them. i think its related to the word humiliate which basically means to bring down.

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