Am I being unreasonable with this person?

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They MAY have matured in all this time. You never know until you try them out.

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No. Itā€™s abusive and apologizing for it makes the abuse continue. One day she might actually do it and then how would you feel? You should feel ashamed because thatā€™s what you said you wanted! In the USA thatā€™s also a Felony that can put you in prison for many years. Murder is murder. Charles Manson never actually killed anyone himself but he encouraged otherā€™s to do so, now heā€™s dead after being in prison for 50 years because of that. Itā€™s meaningless. Itā€™s meaning less to even encourage that sort of thing. Nobody wins.

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OK, I understand, sorry.

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I just want @Jesspresso to feel comfortable and not have to worry about who wants her to die or who is being a piece of ā– ā– ā– ā–  today. I want her to keep on living and come back here because I like hearing her speak. Iā€™m not trying to jump down anyoneā€™s throat but some things cross the line. And this thread isnā€™t about what I think, itā€™s about helping @Jesspresso in what she thinks is right. I donā€™t want her to have to put up with an abusive person like that but at the end itā€™s all her decision. Iā€™ve said my two cents, I can only hope she stays with us.

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You donā€™t think @anon1571434, that Love causes schizophrenia.I donā€™t want that she cry whole life.

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No more than I think the rise of violent video games has caused the murder rates to decline worldwide.

Corelation =/= causation

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I understand. Definitely it is. But I never played video games.

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Yes I read your reply. I supported your words, I think. But anyway thanks.

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I donā€™t think youā€™re being unreasonable. You cut them off for a good reason. They were out of line to jokingly tell you these mean things. You donā€™t need that in your life.

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She is suffering from schizophrenia and its OK up to delusions. But when telepathy will start and if she talk telepathically to her boyfriend. Then who will go to suggest her about medication.

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@anon68148378 This thread is about my friend, not my boyfriend!!

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Thank you for your kind and supportive words.

I have been doing my best recently to avoid toxic people who make me feel bad about myself. I donā€™t think this friend will have changedā€¦
After everything theyā€™ve said to me I donā€™t think they deserve my friendship. But I also donā€™t want to upset themā€¦

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I understand thatā€™s hard. Right now neither of you are in a position to speak to each other it seems. Maybe when you are older and the both of you are more mature you can see each other again. People come and go and there are certainly times when you will see each other again, if even for a moment. Right now you have to make a choice, your happiness or theirs. But your happiness will spread to other people, and their happiness can only be fleeting and you will become dependent on making them feel better to make yourself feel better. So it all depends on what you want. I want you to feel better, but I want you to make the choice and be your own person. I donā€™t want to control you.

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Ok, @Jesspresso, you donā€™t love him than close the matter. I personally think that women have fundamental right to choose her life partner. I am saying about myself that we also lived as friends in childhood for 10 years. But because of myopia in my eyes I didnā€™t went to her. I generally try to avoid. After 10 years when my eyes was operated than I went to her. But badly we separated. Now I think that I talk to her telepathically and this feeling is causing risk to me.

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@anon1571434, I am agree with you, but I want to add - looking back is impossible in life and rare. I agreed to jessp that they are only friends. But think about the best person for her to love.

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Well it ainā€™t someone tryna tell her to kill herself I tell you that. And itā€™s not my decision to make. She is an adult and makes adult decisions. If she wants our help she will ask for it.

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No she said to far cry for help. So I am involved.

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She asked if she was being unreasonable with this person, not if she should love them. Youā€™re off on a tangent.

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Yes, but you are only going to words.

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Iā€™m not going to argue with you! Stop pulling me into this! I said what I had to say to Jesspresso, not to you!

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