I reconnected with a friend that I had a falling out with a couple years ago. Anyway we would schedule a time to hang out and he would flake pretty consistently. One exchange we had went like this.
Me: hey I thought we were chilling. Him: oh it’s my grandmas birthday and I don’t know what time I’ll be done so…
We had made plans so he either forgot his grandmas birthday or was lying but when I read the text I took the “so…” as kind of a ■■■■ you.
He’s definitely unreliable but my problem was that he was just kind of a dick through text messages. I told him that I kind of got bad or dismissive vibes from his texts and he said you can’t get a vibe through text messages. Am I crazy?