My “friend” has been sending me information on holidays we could go to. Few days ago she sent me information on a trip to Wales by bus as it’s cheaper than train. I said no cos I can’t do long journeys on a bus but I said if it was a little more id be happy to spend to go by train. She said to forget it.
Then.
A few days later it’s now a cruise she’s sending me. A 809 £ trip to France and spain on a cruise. I said I’ve just come back from St Lucia where I spent a lot of money I can’t go on an expensive trip.
She gets very angry sometimes when I say no and asks me to ask my mum for the money. I always say no.
She practically told me I should force my mum to go on holiday with me … I said she doesn’t want to … Proceeds to tell me my mum is “wasting” her life. My mum doesn’t even like holidays.
Maybe you should distance yourself from this friend and see how your relationship develops on those new terms. If you’re telling your friend you don’t want to do something, and she is trying to make you, maybe you should reconsider this whole friendship.