I had a thought - if i move to god knows where - I might have some difficulties paying off everything - the cost to live there is too high in contrast with the wages. so anyway,
I was thinking if my sister or brother asked me to give/lend money - how would I react? especially if I save money to travel for example and my sister needs it - what will I do?
Felt kinda weird - because money has never been important to me - and I buy very expensive presents to my friends and stuff. I wonder if I will change after some time?
My partner thinks if he wins the lottery - all our problems will be solved?!
Money means goods and services, we should produce them and use them so yes its important but meanwhile we should help others who really need it. There is a formula in my mind:
Money + wisdom means. Happiness for you and around you
Just money. Means. Sadness
Just wisdom. Means. Money will come too and after that happiness for you and around you but after some hardships(not sure about hardship)
Now the question is which is more important, money or knowledge?
For me money is security, I don’t have ambitions to be a millionaire, but I can’t go throwing around what little I have, even though there are others worse off than me, and probably some who deserve it more than me too.
By goods I meant material things like food clothes car house etc and by serviced I meant sth like giving money to psychiatrist, I didn’t mean charity by that two words at all, if you can afford yourself after that charity can be good and it not always be by money🙋
Oh, I was just I dunno. I walked home from group today and it is only a 4 minute walk but got asked for money twice and didn’t feel safe, plus I lied about not having any change, then imagined him attacking me to prove I had some change. Insecurity on my mind I guess. I’m normally quite charitable and generous with close friends. Have been taken advantage of before too
