Ok, so i have 100 euros disability for being mentally disabled… But we have a new government here, they want to change a bit all these… They want to separate the illness disability from the working disability. Briefly, they’ll determine separately the pourcents of the working disability and if you cant work at all, you’ll touch more money…
My mother said, that i should say, that i cant work at all, sheesh… Tbh, this is hurtful. But in reality, i am still not able to work and idk when i’ll be it… I am in terrible mood every day, i have my fears, i cant be calm often, i cant deal with problems…
But its hard to be imposed even this by your mother, she thinks only money, yeah…
Idk, who here has a working disability on 100% and renounced already to work in general? Is there a happy life without working? 
idk, its sad…
Maybe i should accept my fate and accept, that i still can live happily just as a housewife eventually? sheesh, its hard… One friend told me though, that i can always work illegal or at least without contracts even, without even be known as working by the government, but i am not sure its ok this…
Thats it. I wonder how many of you renounced at working now and if you feel ok with that?
Take care
I get disability and I never want to go back to work ever again. Really all I can do is unload semi trucks and I don’t want to do that again.
Thanks for the answer 
Yeah, tbh, i really am too ill for working… But to be doomed off work officially, this scares me still…
Plus, does some partner will take me if i cant work? At least, i can hope about a family, no?..
Maybe you can find a partner someday. I gave up finding a girlfriend.
Maybe, yeap… But i know, that the women today are quite independent, strong, maybe no one will accept me as not working, just being a housewife, idk…
Who else is forbidden to work? It suxx though, no… my mother doesnt believe in my recovery and maybe this is really impossible… Between my somatics, my pains, my fears, i’ll always have something i think…
My friend says, that i can always work on the black market though… But this is hard, right, to be disabled from work no? Which guy will want a housewife lol???
I think you need to work on yourself and getting well before you worry about finding a husband. How would you take care of someone and a house when you talk about being in bed a lot or being afraid to go out?
I know, zombie, but this question about the job is pending now here and i dont think, that ill be able to work either even later… Its even worse, that my mother just sees me as ill and says, that i’ll always be alone and ill. How would you feel if they treat you as ill all your lfie, without seeing nothing good in you?
I work on myself for the rest, yeap… Maybe its not a big deal to renounce to working, idk…
Do you find, that the men look for working women? anyway…
I cant renounce to everything and this was even a bit my illness, i didnt believe in myself at all before, i was desperate about my future, which is not common…
i can’t work anymore either… i had a hard time with it at first but now i gotten used to it.
Yeap, i see, dear… Ok, how is it now then without a job? me too i think, that i can achieve some well being, but some regular job will always be impossible for me too i find 
… but i cant renounce to all life sheesh, as it was the case for me for 20 years and while my parents didnt care that this is not human even…
you gotta find a way to live this life the best you can huh… even without a job. I accepted that i will prob be always alone because i’m afraid to go outside and can’t work anymore because i can’t got out and the stress from the job makes me relapse too.
No, dont accept that youll always be alone! My parents put me this quite well in my head, its not even true… yeah, me neither i wont be able to work i guess. Maybe ill just have hobbies one day or maybe i can volunteer, cause we still need some activities yeap.
I’m applying for part-time jobs. I have an interview Jan 4th.
Do i want too much still? Maybe i still refuse a bit the peace of mind, right? But my illness was precisely to be given up for decades, pals… Now i am raging, but i know its not good. But yeah, i was totally given up for years, i was desperate, i never saw a future for me. It was like this here for me 
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Anyway, i know that i am ill. But to do nothing and to be completely alone is not a life i think, nope…
Try to get as much money from disability as you can if you can’t work. I need to apply for disability as my payments stopped in Oct. But now my mother tells me that my disability will affect their income and their taxes. My mother is an accountant.
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